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I don't know if intimidated is the right word, but maybe which would bother you more? and honestly niether one needs to bother you, but I know it does bother many of both genders.

Just to be clear, I mean would you be more intimidated if your significant other had a few, but long and meaningful relationships (with long periods of time of a lot of sex but with the same partner) or a lot of little ones with lots of sexual partners?

I ask this because me and my current girlfriend sort of talked about our pasts, which honestly didn't bother either of us, and I have had three ex gfs that each lasted more than 2 years wince I was 16, the last one I even lived together with for a year and had plans on marrying (which was so dumb of me in retrospect, but I wisely left that it out now). Meanwhile she has had the complete oposite of nearly no relationship lasting even a year and apx 10ish ONS, whcih I have never done.

In the end, I think she was much more intimdated by my longterm exgfs then I was of her sexual partners, which triples mine. I just thought I would share as there seems to be a lot of 'slut shaming' or unacceptance of our current SOs sexual pasts, but after this discussion, I think past relationships are worse in a way (if either is 'worse').

What do you think?