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I've been talking to this guy for a few months and we have only seen each other a couple times we have a lot of similarities/ things in common and we've had a few hiccups along the way but we talked about it and it was all good. Recently we had some fun and got carried away i asked him a question regarding our fun and then one thing lead to another he started freaking out about it saying he's not ready for a kid and he was just stressed all day. He told me he's scared and afraid he couldn't shake this feeling. He said he started thinking about things and saying not sure if he could do it just with everything we've been through. We seem to have something every couple weeks. He has told me that he gets overwhelmed and anxious when it comes to certain things in a relationship and he tends to push people away. He said he feels better better about things after we talked and then i was not sure and he's like we should just end it. He wasn't in the right mind space and still couldn't shake this feeling he had about the whole "pregnancy scare" and he did tell me he still likes me but after i mentioned i need to think about things he mentioned about ending things.

So I've been talking to this guy for a few months now and he told me something personal that is usually a common question when people ask about someone your usually seeing/talking too. I ended up telling someone about that personal thing because they asked about that common question and if i did say something generic about the question i knew they would keep asking so i told them and then i told him i told that person.

He said he felt betrayal in a way. he's a very private person and its his first experience when it comes to a relationship. Which i understand but it felt like he wasn't getting my side of things which was a little frustrating.

Also I've been talking about the future a lot and about meeting each other family etc. When im happy and excited about things i usually think about those things. He said i need to tone it down a bit because it made him uncomfortable and nervous. He wants to take things slow and make it right and said he could see a future with me. Things he was saying kind of made me feel like shit and it didn't seem like he was understanding how it was normal and i apologized.

He said he doesn't want to give up on this and we were both stress. It sometimes feels like if he talks about the future etc then its okayy but if i do sometimes its like too soon to talk about it.