How To Intrigue A Man

[WowwGirl]

How To Intrigue A Man

There are some women who attract men to themselves like honey attracts bees. If you want to be one of those women then you have to act magnetic and intriguing to men. You have to stand out in his mind from the other women he encounters in one way or anouther.

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Looks do play a role in this as does personality but, the main element to becoming tempting and interesting to a man is, I know it sounds corny but it's truly just being CONFIDENT in yourself...

No man wants a needy, whining, insecure woman. Although, I will not give out all my secrets to you ladies and gentlemen. However, here are a couple things to start with.

1. Have Intellectual Conversations

He wants a mental match that will hold his stamina and entice his mind, making him think on a deeper level. He craves intriguing conversations that show you can hold your own weight, socially or sitting at home.

Most men desire a woman who can add value to his life allowing the relationship to grow.

2. Smell Delicious

Smelling delicious is the trait of a temptress. You need to have a signature scent when you want to be tempting. It should be warm and captivating and not too strong and overpowering. It should be your scent that should bring you back to a man's mind again and again.

Remember smell is the strongest sense tied to his memory (I suggest citrus smells personally).

3. Have Your Own Life And Value

First youneed to create a lifestyle where you’re firing on ALL cylinders.You’re not just working on one aspect of your life, but seeking to improve yourself on multiple levels in life.This includes your career, hobbies, passions, relationship's, and so on.

Men don't want a woman who's only hobby is texting or calling him constantly. More importantly, this sends a very clear signal to guys that makes them think one thing and one thing only = CLINGY/RUN..

Go out be social make him wait for you to call. A intriguing woman has no time to be sitting around chasing after just anouther man does she? A intriguing woman is very busy with her life, and in demand from multiple men.

4. Shut up And Listen!

Most women talk about themselves repeatedly. This is not sexy or interesting to a man at all. Any man's favorite conversation topic is himself, so ask him questions about that topic. Make him think you are entranced with him and his vast knowledge give him the affirmation he is looking for.

5. Body Language, Body Language, Body Language

Men are visual creatures and most of them need visual cues to realize your interested in them. Be happy, smile, and always look into his eyes. Be bold don't be afraid to lightly touch his arm or fix his shirt collar (he won't bite).

This will show it's possible your interested in him but not 100% yet. Look yourself up and down and then look at him this is called a Covert Self-Offering. In Psychology and Ethology all animals have Covert Self-Offering Behaviors and Cues.

Thank you for reading and don't forget,,,,,

#wowwgirl

#WowgirlRocks

[ohshee]

All I can say is you are one of the best at doing that with every single one of your questions because with every single one of your pictures your Insight the way you see things the way you feel about things and your art your pictures just pull you right in some of your questions I feel you so deep and I think it's beautiful I passed this question by 30 * and I'm 31 I had to just say what it is

[ChiTown33]

One of the few times we're going to agree.
A few points I want to I highlight though. I can't speak for all men. I hate women that dumb themselves down for a guy. I mean don't get me wrong it's a nice thing to do for his ego and all but in the long run how do you not resent it?
And point #4 I think that goes for both women and guys. People in general favorite subject is themselves.

[WowwGirl]

Thank you

[Whatever2929292]

Yea me too I HATE that. I mean I don't try and judge people for things they can't control and stuff like that. I don't think I would be someone who is like mentally challenged to a extreme. But the ones who are just IDIOTS. Can't be around them at all.

[Whatever2929292]

But a intelligent woman is really attractive even if she is smarter then me (which I don't claim to be that smart anyways)

[OlderAndWiser]

1. Signature scent should be just strong enough so that he only smells it when standing very close to you.

2. Men thrive on feeling competent about themselves. Determine the areas of his greatest knowledge and ask him about those areas. If we feel that we have impressed you, that brings out our confidence.

3. Men are visual creatures. If a girl shows up for a first date wearing a miniskirt and she flashes her panties getting in and out of a restaurant booth, then I may be aroused but there is no sense of mystery or quiet allure. If she is wearing a longer skirt or dress and she has my attention, then that plants the seeds of desire and wanting to be closer.

[Oram52]

I totally disagree with No.3 why would mystery be lost with shorter skirt? I don't even like longer skirts. There is a difference between looking fine & sexy and trashy. If that stopped men getting closer or prevented seeds of desire not being sown women wouldn't wear short skirts or guys wouldn't love it. It clearly has intended result.

[OlderAndWiser]

@Oram52 Except that you forget what question I was answering. It is "how to intrigue a man," not "how to get fucked."

[WowwGirl]

🤣🤣🤣🎉🎉🎉

[Oram52]

Yes I definitely read that, and I replied accordingly. :)
Why wouldn't she be any less intriguing just because she is dressed sexy? In terms of hooking up, one there is absolutely nothing wrong with it, if that's what they desired to do, secondly no shortage of girls with longer skirts who also love hooking up.

Just because she is looking fine in mini dress or short skirt doesn't take away from any intrigue, it clearly has intended result. I mean you're in Florida, enough said.

[Oram52]

I replied it seems it got deleted?

[Oram52]

Don't mean to spam here, but I just got a message saying my comment removed because it was offensive, reply was similar to above. Odd. i definitely replied, it was deleted. Can't think of anything offensive in it.

[Oram52]

@OlderAndWiser Don't mean to insinuate anything but by any chance are you deleting my message for being offensive, literally can't find anything offensive, can mail you the exact message for feedback?

[WowwGirl]

@Oram52 I didn't move or report it I hate snitches. What did your reply say I didn't notice anything harsh

[Oram52]

thanks all good :)

[Whatever2929292]

I agree some people you can smell across Walmart with their cologne and perfume

[Whatever2929292]

It is really just annoying

[Ghen28]

LMAO

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I'm just myself, and those that get me. get me and those that don't, then we wouldn't be a good match...
#4 is kinda a double standard tho I'd say...

[WowwGirl]

Well

[WowwGirl]

@Nawww I'd say that for men too

[Birdlegs]

I don't know about double standard but that’s definitely what I’ve always been told about girls “just get them to talk about themselves” and you’re in😂

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Birdlegs true communication: both should be able to talk and both should also be able to listen...

[Guy13]

Truthful and Exact combined with Helpful. Pretty good formula...

[Joshua_L_Blackmon]

there's no such thing as a women who doesn't know how pretty she is, yeah most men don't like insecure women.. i think its visecersa.. because how can he think about sleeping with you.. and we do 3 times a day at least.. if your gonna swindle the flames by saying something dumb.. do you think my Blank is unattractive.. I thought you were attractive and thats why I am with you and if I think your blank is unattractive, obviously something else carries a whole lot more weight to me, but if I tell you the truth you will now wallow and I will have to Not think about wanting you.. and now have to deal with this.. its a real turn off.. i get you want attention, but it fking sucks., always smell pretty.. im sorry i didn't make the rules. I like kinda smart women , not dumb women, But i honestly will accept a dumb women if she is interested and is comforting, and actually acts in her instincts and shows it.. i guess thats body language.. its Not rocket science ladies.. same goes for dudes.. its just how natural selection and logic works.. I want someone , i want the person i want to want me, i want the person i want to do things that i like for me, i want the person i want to smell like things that i like to smell.. its basic. she's got one thing fucking wrong tho. I don't care how successful you are, if you are successful that is cool and nice.. and all but its neither attractive or unattractive. do what you want to do with your goals, but allow there to be some time in there for whatever relationship is developing.. and the people who say ignore.. i just want to say.. thats some dumb shit right there.. i don't really want you if you want me for ignoring you, because I moved on if im ignoring you. some dudes manipulate.. and there good at it.. women it doesn't work for you.. unless he's a big softy.. if you want a big softy there you go. you got a big softy by the nads.. better keep him by the nads, because as soon as you throw him away.. he not doing that again for another women and not even you.

[Joshua_L_Blackmon]

and if you don't believe me , 100% of people who say successful women are attractive are women.

[Whatever2929292]

Why would you say that? I don't judge people for things like most people do I am not shallow or gold digging but I would never turn a woman down for it. Like I would date a woman making less then me. But if she makes more if you marry her... You arne't losing anything. It makes ZERO sense to me at all

[Whatever2929292]

Also Josh everyone is different and has different standards

[Joey_007]

I disagree, first and for most never strive to captivate or intrigue you have to live your life for the sole sake of living it and nothing else don't do shit because "A intriguing woman has no time to be sitting around chasing after just another man" or "men are visual creatures" type of shit is that all you need to do is make sure your professional life is in order and he should always come second to that as for how you carry yourself dress for comfort and style your preferred style make sure your hygiene is top tier I'll give her scent but it just has to be a scent you like and you have to stick with it I guarantee you he'll think of you when he smells it and so will everybody else if there's ever been anything most women should work on is their conversation skill it doesn't have to be intellectual trust me dudes can have a conversation about whether or not they'd have sex with a girl with one boob like it's a philosophical conundrum it just has to be stimulating, interesting or entertaining

[WowwGirl]

Sure thank you for reading

[Whatever2929292]

The only time that I really pay attention if a woman likes me or not is either if I know her, am interacting with her, or like her. If you think that I really care about random women and some men do but even a lot of men and women. When they are out doing their business they want to be left alone and aren't paying attention to random strangers giving cues.

I was kind of surprised when I even learned what they are and only after that began paying attention and noticed some of them. But again people seem to do nothing but frustrate me in public. I don't really like talking to random people including even people that I have to.

But that is just me at least I don't know about others. I would not date a woman who wears a mask though especially not this late into it MERICA lol. But anyways.

I also really hate it when random people touch me but as long as I know the person and feel comfortable around them I guess it is fine. I mean when I am in a relationship I am touchy don't get me wrong not strangers though. It is really annoying when people are touching me trying to get my attention or brush stuff off of men even if they are well intended.

I am not mean about it I just don't like it. LOL Most people don't come near me anyways I give so many people the stink eye and I think other people think I am mean and avoid me at all costs even if I was not giving it to them

People are weird, annoying, always right there intentionally getting in your way over and over again. Standing around talking in the middle of the isle.

But I don't mind it as much if I have been stuck in the house too long

[Whatever2929292]

I mean if I am attracted to the person touching me then I might like it but even then... I just really not into it.

[Whatever2929292]

I will say this I am pretty clingily and needy myself. So I need someone who also is. But someone who is blowing me up ALL the time and calling me in the middle of the night. Look sorry to say it this way but you call me past 9 at night and 7 in the morning and there isn't a problem there is about to be one

[Whatever2929292]

But see you then again say something that ins't even true to begin with. Make him wait... If I am calling sometimes there is a emergency and to be ignored espeically if I don't call much and I know she isn't busy. I most of the time know.

It makes me feel like I am not important to her and more often then not loose interest.

You do NOT know what most men want. AT ALL. You know what some want and besides that every man is different notice how many men have rebutted what you said

[Whatever2929292]

and being honest looking at most of your profile you seem to have a problem with men anyways

[GuyWithaBrain]

i only skimmed threw this for anyone who reads this as of a guy as you can tell some do not like all the details some wanna sit and get everything every guy is different so you will just have to wing it most of the time cause its not like you get a book on each guy but in my personal opinion there are a few key things for me the way they act talk and treat me as well as some other things im a clinger i love hugs and i like being close i dont care much about giving space it dont bother be i like being up front and honest i can't stand lies if i was dying just say so idc im gonna take it and deal with what happens later i love the flowers i like teasing and all kinds of other things but it gets a bit more personal... anyways even with all this im a single guy and its probably cause of my overbearing depression its fine ill try to keep going but there is no cure all pill so like i said there are all kinds each guy has his things he likes and dislikes but as you get to know them as i shown here they can have down falls too like depression so just be careful and hope for the best ^^ do take care.

[Kstiz2287]

I'd say those are some pretty good points for at least what I find attractive in a woman. The current woman I'm seeing impresses the hell out of me with her resilience, sheer motivation to create things and improve her life, she's hilarious and beautiful too. She's gone through a hell of a lot more challenging times than I have, and yet always manages to keep her head above the water and keep try to continually improve herself (doesn't always work, but at least she is trying really, really hard for it).

The only thing I don't necessarily agree with is talking only about things I want to talk about - I love to talk about stuff she wants to talk about too. It's when a woman becomes constantly wants to talk about negative things or really narrow-minded and only superficial things that I can't stand it. Additionally, if she doesn't get any value out of my input on it, then why are we even having those conversations? My opinion isn't always right (more often than not it probably isn't right), but she still likes to hear it and will almost always at least humor me and try out my suggestions, which does feel great that she doesn't just instantly shoot down everything I say. Otherwise, I'm bored, absolutely. Occasionally those things are fine because everyone goes through rough patches and most find interest in at least some things that honestly don't matter... but when that's your go-to conversation every single time then nah, that's no good.

[XavierSteele]

I think this was pretty spot on. If I can say anything I think it's that people forget one simple thing with regard to men, and that is we enjoy being able to act within our male nature in regards to women.
Now before any dirty minds reading this too think I mean sex you're completely off the mark. Men since our earliest understanding of him has been in nature an agressive specie's. Women give us men a purpose other than worrying about ourselves.
A modern man is best when he can be a benefit to the relationship even when not asked. We have a tender side but most men reserve that for a lady he feels comfortable showing that too.
By that admission we are aggressive to a fault and it's through a woman's grace and affection we grow from boyhood to manhood.
I believe we lose more and more men with each passing generation.

[WowwGirl]

Well thank you sir

[WowwGirl]

@xaviersteele I like your new photo

[XavierSteele]

@WowwGirl Thank you very much. :)

[WowwGirl]

Anytime

[WowwGirl]

@xaviersteele I smile rarely 😶 very glad you saw one thank you ☺️

[Xitomyth]

I can't refute what you posted, but I would add that she should have both an exciting and yet calming effect on the man. Exciting when it comes to her, but calming when it comes to other things, some of us tend to overthink or spiral, some tend to have wild thoughts, and others just need an "anchor" at times in order to stay "grounded" or "tethered".

[WowwGirl]

Well thank you for that I appreciate it

[Xitomyth]

You are welcome, anytime!

[MasseurDeMojo]

I know of many women who need to read this. They ask me why I am not talking to them; probably because they continually choose to converse when it is time for me to sleep, and will not stop blowing up my messages. I have gone to turning off notifications, so I can get much needed rest.

Then they get mad at me, and call me a player, and a lire. No!! I just do not like women who have no sense of respecting my time and obligations, and continually ask me the exact same questions of what I am doing, that I cannot talk to them at 11pm my time; or what have I eaten, every single day!!! They become very annoying.

Thank You for this!!! This is refreshing!!!

[WowwGirl]

Girls just don't get it

[JayParris]

Everything here is true, plus some other stuff. But while I hate to say it, I think you lost about 90% of women (same as men, but this is focused on the ladies) right off the bat with #1. I learned a long time ago not to use intellectual conversations as a barometer of friendship or relationship material because that's too much of a limitation when dealing with most people. I've only met two people in my life who can truly have a mentally stimulating conversation. The rest just get that thousand yard stare and pretend to listen, so I recognize the situation and dumb down the conversation from that point forward.

I'd substitute "act like you have some sense", because that in itself will weed out about 80% of the population

[WowwGirl]

Thanking you

[ChrisMaster69]

That’s a really good write up.

I really like the challenge and intrigue of this type.

I like that there is a hint of something else to uncover.

standing out is really good, something that just catches the eye, it can be a little thing.

body language is so important, that little dip of the head, little smirk, lift of the eyes.

all give you something to focus on.

Being able to talk intelligently and hold interesting conversation, show some drive and ambition.

I keep saying I like confident, independent, feisty, intelligent, original, types of girl.

needs to be a challenge.

for example watched the last Lucifer tonight, Mazikeen is simply perfect.

[WowwGirl]

Thank you so much

[ChrisMaster69]

@WowwGirl pleasure always like reading your stuff

[WowwGirl]

Appreciate you

[Explorer91]

I don’t do any of that and I attract men.
I walk around with headphones in and sometimes even talk to myself so it looks like I’m on the phone lol if I can tell someone is near me that keeps looking at me.
i do the complete opposite of trying to impress,
my theory is people like authenticity, it’s why the whole fake natural makeup look works well. It’s not actually natural you have makeup on but it looks like you don’t. So it appears authentic, I believe When you don’t try and just be yourself people will come to you =)

[Oram52]

Interesting. But definitely couldn't help but agree with, "No man wants a needy, whining, insecure woman."

Even simple changes can go long way, simple things women can do to be more desirable. Take from example signature scent, with all those perfume Ads one would think women would but guess not. Good perspective.

by the way where did you find that painting with woman eating apple.

[WowwGirl]

Googled temptress don't remember past that

[Oram52]

Damn nothing showing up for me :) Love the painting tho.

[WowwGirl]

Sorry I can't help you more

[Oram52]

no worries found it :) this time searched for temptress and apple haha

[WowwGirl]

Yayyyy

[PaynefulPleasures]

In my opinion I look good for my age , smell good , work hard, play hard, I cling to myself no one else, take care of my needs, my want is to live life my way,& I don't need no man to tell me different. Love me or leave me alone ✌️ Strong, steadfast, straight up true!!

[WowwGirl]

@PaynefulPleasures how do I know you? How do we know you? @gwenhwyfar

You had a different user name I know that I've spoken to you for many reasons. So please be honest because I will find out eventually who you are
gag is all about who you know
And I know everyone 🌺

[WowwGirl]

Did you think nobody would know?

[WowwGirl]

@Avicenna hi

[PaynefulPleasures]

I've never had another name haven't been here that long but you keep running game that's fine by me cause I'll always be PaynefulPleasures ✌️

[WowwGirl]

Sure

[WowwGirl]

What's running game? Like a loan shark?

[Oram52]

"I don't need no man to tell me different. Love me or leave me alone"
Definitely leave you alone, don't need no man to tell her different then she can fuck off :) I mean you can clearly see that at your age. Its no longer about independence but attitude, last thing men like is attitude. Something very apparent at your age.

I love strong independent women, that's who i date, but would never date anyone with attitude. Strong women don't don't need to yell sweetheart men are drawn to them.

[WowwGirl]

@Oram52 I only date younger guys, actually I've figured out beautiful woman can get a man any age if done right I'm 0:? So I'm fine with my age sir

[WowwGirl]

You shouldn't yell at guys I agree. I guess some older chicks are bitter and angry

[purplepoppy]

Standing out is the key. Just look at any group photo and there'll always be some one who pops out. It couldn't be something as simple as having a different hair colour but it draws the eye.

[WowwGirl]

Facts

[ChrisMaster69]

@purplepoppy 100% originality really does pull it.

[Pasiton5]

I agree with some of your points, confidence yes, intelligence of course, independence a must, shut up and listen, whoa hold up hit the brakes, maybe to some egotistical closed minded dude yeah, but this dude values his woman, thoughts ideas opinions i eat her to always speak up speak freely say her thoughts, and intelligent conversion only goes as far as intelligence of dude, i mean if all he talks about is his best okay on forthnight, or deep six whatever well not much stimulation going on there over all you should always be who you are from the time you say hi on till you say rest in peace, but do many are phoney as hell, always switching personalities like they do men just stay true to you if you got to constantly change your personality, it's time for professional help,, all i look for in s woman is the basics, honest, kind loving caring knows commitment, the basics of s good person we all have our quirks,

[AzzaBlue]

Good take. I generally don't agree with you on many things, but I think that you're pretty spot on here. Personally what makes a woman stick out for me a woman that is original/ authentic who follows her own "script" rather than following the traditional script where women expect men to do all the work in dating. A woman who is proactive and goes after what she wants tells me that she has a spine and is confidant but is also able to think for herself and is not afraid to go against traditional rules.

[WowwGirl]

Well there is a first time for everything thank you

[Silas_153]

"Any man's favorite conversation topic is himself, so ask him questions about that topic. Make him think you are entranced with him and his vast knowledge give him the affirmation he is looking for."

That's not MY favourite topic of conversation! In fact, I actually hate it when people ask me personal questions, questions about what I do, where I go, my past, et cetera. I'm not looking for "affirmation", I just want the other person to treat me with basic decency and respect, and not be condescending or engage in gaslighting.
This entire post is about manipulating others, when the advice you should be giving is that if you want to intrigue anyone you should just be yourself and not tell your entire lifestory in one go. Put away the silly phone, and actually listen to the one sitting across from you in the restaurant or wherever you happen to be. It's not that hard you know. You're over-complicating things here.

[WowwGirl]

@Silas_153 do you know the two things that distract all man or at least one will?
Money and Women

[Silas_153]

ALL men? There are some men (like gays, for instance) who aren't attracted to women (I'm not one of those, by the way, just saying), and as for money, I couldn't care less about it, because I have enough to live on and that's all I need. I don't need, or even want, to be a millionaire. Your generalisations just aren't true, you can't just lump an entire class of people together like this, and think they're all the same, now and forever.

[WowwGirl]

Gays like money and talking about themselves

[WowwGirl]

See. Covers them all in one way