I disagree. Women should be more commitment worthy and find total cofidence in that alone. Men do not find women who are absolute independent or who are totally dependent to be an attraction. Deception , lies and untrustworthynes are a woman's cancer towards men thicker than honey or blood.
Being intrigued is for the young as they're dreamers still. The older have visions where there's nothing intriguing about a woman intrinsically cause they all look the same upside down. To be impressed beyond words then make a definite impression instead.
Visions are clearer and tangible. Dreams are just that. Really what this all means is that the younger try to accomplish a dream set forth , where the older are living what was set forth. Intriguing is a word those use when they're considering they're destiny through dreams. Which is good to have dreams that motivate someone towards they're own self being. But the older have been there and done that and rather another word then is used... impressed.
You know what... all of these suggestions are good. But one thing for sure, don't sweat it. If it happens, it will happen. If a guy likes you, he will do everything to be with you. No matter what you give out there. Don't sweat it. Just be. Let it be.
I agree. I think too often people are leaning so far forward the other person just moves aftraid of getting crushed. A friend of mine was so afraid of women. This is because he was thinking marrage before he even knew their name. WAY too invested. The idea is to get to know some one casually and just enjoy the moment. If it happens over time great. If it don't great friends. Need to be friends to start with anyway. Can always use more of them.
Just do what women have always done to attract men. However, it is easier to attract a man than it is to keep him. You can drive a man away by being bitchy, demanding, difficult, or any of the foregoing unfavorable traits. Men are easy when they think they are doing well. However, if you are seeking men above your league, it is almost hopeless. Of course, they will fuck you because if available, that's what men do. However, since they can do better, they are not going to get into a serious relationship with you.
Often you can hang on for a couple of years hoping that maybe you can catch him. That could happen but it is rare. Meanwhile, if you are much over 18, your desirability is decreasing with every additional year and while you are hanging on hoping, the top men you could have had will no longer want you.
Listen. Having a healthy debate no matter what the topic is not always a bad thing. You don't take any shit.. that's good. Relentless at times that's not always good.
Nothing wrong with being the villain.. nothing like a beautiful bad girl..🤤
Well I don't want a woman running after mulitiple men, I don't like games, and I don't really care about talking about myself (I like headier topics then that) and she better be able to talk and hold a consversation, conversations by nature should be two way, otherwise I would say this is fairly accurate.
Hey, is there a place i could read more about this "Covert Self-Offering" you're talking about. I wanna know what the psychology behind that is and how it affects attraction
Nice stuff! Show a hint of naughtiness, sympathise with male points of view (as in, don't be a feminist), be feminine, and pay attention to him, because guys get very few compliments in their lives, and having a girl laugh at your jokes is great.
I disagree with 3b. A talkative woman is NOT clingy! She's simply a good communicator. There is never, ever, ever, anything wrong with that.
I also disagree with 4. Though I am a Toby Keith fan, I'm not a narcissist, and I honestly don't need to talk about myself all the time. I am more than happy to talk about her. Just give me like 10% of the topics and I'm good.
Well... I think all but #4 are pretty much spot on. I don't just babble on about how wonderful I am. I do want to know why she's interested in me however and that requires her to talk, and I really do want to know about her., which again, requires her to talk, about herself as long as she's being honest. Confident, smart women intrigue me. One thing that you seemed to skip though is a good sense of humor not forced humor either, I have tended to see through that. A woman's honest laugh, no matter what her laugh is like, in an instant attraction to me. A little self depredation is a sign of honesty for me. She's not afraid of a few embarrassing moments. If she blushes a bit, all the better. Honesty...
I dont really care about going out of my way to intrigue a dude. It's a waste of my time to give that much side thought. Unless it is a dude that I've decided is worth extra time and thought. I'll just be me. and they can either be interested or not. Not a big deal. I already have these things down for myself.
I'd say 3 and 4 are most important, for men or women. There's a time to talk about yourself, but when you get them talking about what interests them, let it roll. You know, unless what they're about opposes who you are. There's plenty of hot tail out there and no reason to compromise yourself over it.
Ummmm on the bee part, I don't think you understand what honey does to bees. When they want honey they will sting the hell out of you, that will litterally kill them. I had to do some feeding on the down season, when I use a mix with food to strengthen the hive they were vicious. I usually joke around that wasps are natures assholes, but you stand between certain "flavours" and bees... Hell has no furry like a women scorn. On, another note hope one day I will see that smile of yours.
is good mytake. i always has stand out of the coward but only get guys that only one that like me is one my ex boyfriend that is a cheater. i been talking to another on new guy through newfacebook since i got rudely reject my yonger guy. it doesn't always work. i don't like to play game. guys don't take the hint well with touching and looking up and down.
I feel like most attraction happens for somewhat intangible reasons. That being said, the advice to smell nice and to have a life instead of constantly demanding his attention was good. It's not that you need to be some super busy person with tons of friends who rarely has time for him. It's just that you need to give him a break and do your own thing some of the time. It also just makes you more interesting that you're doing stuff that interests you.
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I disagree. Women should be more commitment worthy and find total cofidence in that alone. Men do not find women who are absolute independent or who are totally dependent to be an attraction. Deception , lies and untrustworthynes are a woman's cancer towards men thicker than honey or blood.
Being intrigued is for the young as they're dreamers still. The older have visions where there's nothing intriguing about a woman intrinsically cause they all look the same upside down. To be impressed beyond words then make a definite impression instead.
Good thing I usually date younger
Visions are clearer and tangible. Dreams are just that. Really what this all means is that the younger try to accomplish a dream set forth , where the older are living what was set forth. Intriguing is a word those use when they're considering they're destiny through dreams. Which is good to have dreams that motivate someone towards they're own self being. But the older have been there and done that and rather another word then is used... impressed.
Well I achieved mine that way
You know what... all of these suggestions are good. But one thing for sure, don't sweat it. If it happens, it will happen. If a guy likes you, he will do everything to be with you. No matter what you give out there. Don't sweat it. Just be. Let it be.
I agree. I think too often people are leaning so far forward the other person just moves aftraid of getting crushed. A friend of mine was so afraid of women. This is because he was thinking marrage before he even knew their name. WAY too invested. The idea is to get to know some one casually and just enjoy the moment. If it happens over time great. If it don't great friends. Need to be friends to start with anyway. Can always use more of them.
Just do what women have always done to attract men. However, it is easier to attract a man than it is to keep him. You can drive a man away by being bitchy, demanding, difficult, or any of the foregoing unfavorable traits. Men are easy when they think they are doing well. However, if you are seeking men above your league, it is almost hopeless. Of course, they will fuck you because if available, that's what men do. However, since they can do better, they are not going to get into a serious relationship with you.
Often you can hang on for a couple of years hoping that maybe you can catch him. That could happen but it is rare. Meanwhile, if you are much over 18, your desirability is decreasing with every additional year and while you are hanging on hoping, the top men you could have had will no longer want you.
this is very good.. the only thing I would add is.. this all has to be genuine. It has to be who that women is every day. Overall👇🏾
Thanks man
You are so very welcome
And I agree with genuine
😉🤗🤗
Such a sweetie...😘
Word on the street is I'm a sexist bitch
Someone has to be the villain.
I'm drawn for it
Really I'm the sexyest bitch so they're close
Listen. Having a healthy debate no matter what the topic is not always a bad thing. You don't take any shit.. that's good. Relentless at times that's not always good.
Nothing wrong with being the villain.. nothing like a beautiful bad girl..🤤
Only in the spelling are they close love.💯
Well I don't want a woman running after mulitiple men, I don't like games, and I don't really care about talking about myself (I like headier topics then that) and she better be able to talk and hold a consversation, conversations by nature should be two way, otherwise I would say this is fairly accurate.
Thank you
Hey, is there a place i could read more about this "Covert Self-Offering" you're talking about. I wanna know what the psychology behind that is and how it affects attraction
@WowwGirl (:
I'll tell you someday it's interesting and fool proof
Nothing is fool-proof.
@Xtcy2083 sure thanks
I don't get intrigued by women who try to be intriguing. I'm intrigued by women who are intriguing.
I'm all
Nice stuff! Show a hint of naughtiness, sympathise with male points of view (as in, don't be a feminist), be feminine, and pay attention to him, because guys get very few compliments in their lives, and having a girl laugh at your jokes is great.
I said I was keeping some secrets sir
Haa, sorry my lady, but I am sure you are quite charming regardless of secrets.
It's like the magicians code😂
Haa!
I call it vagic @Xoirwinkan
Wow nice term!
Call me the vagican. I have vagical power's
So you can do tricks with it? Oohh
Sure
I disagree with 3b. A talkative woman is NOT clingy! She's simply a good communicator. There is never, ever, ever, anything wrong with that.
I also disagree with 4. Though I am a Toby Keith fan, I'm not a narcissist, and I honestly don't need to talk about myself all the time. I am more than happy to talk about her. Just give me like 10% of the topics and I'm good.
Okay thanks for reading
You're welcome!
🙂🙂🙂
This mytake is FIRE! It is reaaaaally god stuff! Ladies take some notes because if you follow this you will have a boyfriend. like fo realz.
Thank you sir I appreciate that
Well... I think all but #4 are pretty much spot on.
I don't just babble on about how wonderful I am.
I do want to know why she's interested in me however and that requires her to talk, and I really do want to know about her., which again, requires her to talk, about herself as long as she's being honest.
Confident, smart women intrigue me.
One thing that you seemed to skip though is a good sense of humor not forced humor either, I have tended to see through that. A woman's honest laugh, no matter what her laugh is like, in an instant attraction to me. A little self depredation is a sign of honesty for me. She's not afraid of a few embarrassing moments. If she blushes a bit, all the better.
Honesty...
Even though I do agree that #WowgirlRocks... I stopped reading at the part that says "like honey attracts bees"..
Lol fair enough
yea I had a hard time reading it myself not much you are missing out on
I dont really care about going out of my way to intrigue a dude. It's a waste of my time to give that much side thought. Unless it is a dude that I've decided is worth extra time and thought. I'll just be me. and they can either be interested or not. Not a big deal. I already have these things down for myself.
I'd say 3 and 4 are most important, for men or women. There's a time to talk about yourself, but when you get them talking about what interests them, let it roll. You know, unless what they're about opposes who you are. There's plenty of hot tail out there and no reason to compromise yourself over it.
Ummmm on the bee part, I don't think you understand what honey does to bees. When they want honey they will sting the hell out of you, that will litterally kill them. I had to do some feeding on the down season, when I use a mix with food to strengthen the hive they were vicious. I usually joke around that wasps are natures assholes, but you stand between certain "flavours" and bees... Hell has no furry like a women scorn. On, another note hope one day I will see that smile of yours.
The girl in this video knows how to intrigue a man.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/b7SnqaGMg5YShe starts at 00:53, then again at 2:12
Gosh
That girl got game 👍😂
@Oram52 she's ok
I just look at you and get turned on , so no need for all that 😋
Got them words I see
Well words is all I can use right now , but they are better with Actions 😘
Yeah you got them
The question is , do i have a chance with you 😘
I am a man and I approve of this message.
Excellent...
Thank you sir man
Thank you
No thank you
is good mytake. i always has stand out of the coward but only get guys that only one that like me is one my ex boyfriend that is a cheater. i been talking to another on new guy through newfacebook since i got rudely reject my yonger guy. it doesn't always work. i don't like to play game. guys don't take the hint well with touching and looking up and down.
I feel like most attraction happens for somewhat intangible reasons. That being said, the advice to smell nice and to have a life instead of constantly demanding his attention was good. It's not that you need to be some super busy person with tons of friends who rarely has time for him. It's just that you need to give him a break and do your own thing some of the time. It also just makes you more interesting that you're doing stuff that interests you.