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The Basics Which Make A Man Appealing


Although most of these refer to both genders, and they're appealing to both sexes, I'm going to talk about traits that women find appealing in men. As I'm sure you're smart people, you're going to recognize quite a few of these as desirable indeed.


The Basics Which Make A Man Appealing




He's a MAN


What makes a man appealing is, first and foremost, that he's a man.



[The rest refer to both genders.]



He's a problem SOLVER


He lives his life, doesn't blame others for his problems, but learns how to deal with them as they arise. This isn't a trait exclusive to men, of course, you have to be your own problem solver.



He's STRONG


Both physically and psychologically. He's the rock you lean on. Also - you have to be his rock as well. Support each other.


The Basics Which Make A Man Appealing

He's INDEPENDENT


The less you depend on others and the more you can take care of yourself, the more appealing you're going to be.



He's AMBITIOUS


He know what he wants and he goes after it. He works hard to be successful and doesn't give up easily.



He's RATIONAL


He isn't a dreamer, he sees things as they are so he can make the best and most useful decisions moving forward. Of course, this doesn't mean he's devoid of feeling...he just knows when to use his head instead of his heart to get the best result possible for himself and the people he loves.




P.S. I realize these aren't the romanticized notions of relationships - of what a perfect specimen should be... You see, things in life aren't measured by rose petals, but by quality time you spend with each other and the feelings you share and obstacles you overcome.



The Basics Which Make A Man Appealing

The Basics Which Make A Man Appealing
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