5 Things I Find Attractive in a Man

desidoll

Okay so I thought I won't be nominated by anyone but apparently, miss @azzntittiz mentioned me on her Take so I guess I have to join this challenge. My taste is so much different than other women so don't be surprised with the traits that will be listed.

1. Nerdy

Look at that
Look at that "blur" face

I like nerdy guys because most of them tend to be humble. They are generally nice and shy, which is cute to me. I know this trait can be a turn off to many women especially those who prefer the extrovert guys. Yes my boyfriend is a nerd and sometimes he can't even tell when I am mad, serious or being sarcastic πŸ˜‚πŸ€“

Nerdy guys are hot in the bed. I love to watch their reaction. Since they are inexperienced and high on curiosity, they love trying new things and when they are lost, I'd take charge. This is the best part πŸ˜†

2. Smell

Definitely not body odor!
Definitely not body odor!

I put on perfume wherever I go. It is like a habit for me and I'd love it if my partner does the same. Now, the thing is the smell of a man's body is different. It has its own sexiness. Something about it that really turns me on. Whenever my boyfriend sweats, I'd come to him and sniff him like a dog. Yes I do that 🐢 🀀

3. Sexy butt

He doesn't need that brief
He doesn't need that brief

Oh It looks like I share similar taste with my buddy miss azzntittiz on this one. Guys with sexy butt often catch my attention. I don't like it big, but I like it to be just nicely in shaped, and most importantly, firm πŸ‘

4. Foodie

It is a cheat day πŸ₯—πŸ²πŸ•πŸŒ­πŸ₯žπŸ§€πŸ–πŸ₯“πŸ›πŸœ
It is a cheat day πŸ₯—πŸ²πŸ•πŸŒ­πŸ₯žπŸ§€πŸ–πŸ₯“πŸ›πŸœ

It is extremely important for me to be with someone who is a foodie. I love cooking different types of food and I kind of expect him to be able to eat whatever I cook without complaining! No worries, I won't feed you raw squid, roasted cat or dog lol. I usually travel to another countries just to try different cuisines. So he must get along with me on this.

5. Handyman

I feel like spoiling my doorknob now πŸ˜—
I feel like spoiling my doorknob now πŸ˜—

I always find a skilled man who is good at repairing and fixing broken stuffs is hot! I don't mind dating a mechanic. I'd love to touch his dirty hands.

It would be interesting to see what some other users like in the opposite gender so I'd like to challenge :

@xHoneyxBeex

@CHARismatic110

@Pink2000

@Buckzor

@Cosytoasty

@Toad-1

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  • bacca400

    Yes I'd say you are unusual so you have the pick of the nerdy guys out there! :)

    And when you take charge when you need to, that makes you very compatible with these guys. They are often shy, empathic, and especially don't want to scare someone. But their empathy can make them high anxiety too, so there are pros and cons.

    Source: I'm a bit of nerd but got over my shyness.

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  • bubbatxman

    This is definitely me. Technical architect. Lots of man smell. Nice butt now that I’m going to the gym regularly. Definitely a foodie. And it seems my handyman skills at fixing door knobs, cleaning drains, and hanging decorations and lights at the moment. But I’ve done a lot more. You seem to have a practical bent on manliness and I like that.

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  • xHoneyxBeex

    Great list! I agree with many of these, especially the Foodie and Handyman one! I also like "nerdy" guys but specifically those who are history nerds since that's something I'm also passionate about and we can go to museums and visit cool historical sites together. Physically, I LOVE strong hands and arms on guys. That's something I definitely look for in a guy. Lol

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    • desidoll

      I'm glad that I'm not the only one who likes nerdy guys lol. Yes handyman is often hot when they are fixing stuffs. Dirty hands usually show hard work πŸ‘¨β€πŸ”§

    • Yes! I'm not sure why but watching a man work can be a total turn on sometimes. lol

    • desidoll

      I guess it has something to do with how they concentrate fixing stuffs while sometimes talking to another person lol. Multitasker! I know I am not oneπŸ˜‚

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  • vishna

    dat ass and handiness <3 my heart. I use to love nerds, but my last boyfriend was too cringe/weeaboo. But I like when guys love their videogames and fangirl over something.

    Yass to smell too, timber by old spice is the best smelling thing on this planet and no one can convince me otherwise.

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    • desidoll

      Someone actually pointed out something in front which I didn't notice lol πŸ˜‚
      Yes too cringe is a turn off.

    • vishna

      oh my god, I just saw it...*scrolls back up* haha

    • desidoll

      Haha πŸ†

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  • Logorithim

    Nice list.

    I'm checking my butt in the mirror- Looks good to me. I do a lot of cooking on my own, and eat less of what others cook.

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  • ManOnFire

    I am definitely a handy man and a bit of a nerd lol.

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  • DinaM

    What I find attractive in a man:

    - A sense of humour.
    - Kindness and warmth.
    - An open mind.
    - Willing to play fantasy RPGs with me.
    - Accepting that just because I'm bisexual it doesn't mean that I'm going to cheat on him with some girl, or that I'm interested in a threesome.

    Okay, I don't actually have any physical attributes that I melt for, not that I can think of, anyway. Oh, wait! If he has a good singing voice, that's a HUGE plus.

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    • desidoll

      So you are a bisexual. Do you mean that you will only be with one gender if you are in a relationship?

    • DinaM

      I will only be with one PERSON if I'm in a relationship. ^_^ Gender is irrelevant.

  • AlphaGhost

    Hhmmmmm... you solved a very big mystery for me. When ever I sleep She always near my body but not that wrapped and love motion. She was actually trying to sniff me and I always thinking Why would anyone hug my sweaty body?
    There is catch to it Just like ladies Male loves the female order too (not menstruating one) but normal one.

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  • CuChullan

    I would qualify in some of your likes. But not all.
    That guys butt... looks like it has a pussy slit where it should have a package!!!
    Interesting take all the same.

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  • Fitness-Fanatic

    Good take. I'm attracted to a sexy butt , and a man with dirty hands too lol

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  • Buckzor

    Interesting!

    I honestly don't know what i'm even interested in myself, but i'll give it a go :)

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  • AoiKaito

    1. Yep, I am pretty nerdy in terms of both intelligence and social skills.

    2. I don't wear any perfume or cologne. But, I do shower regularly.

    3. I have been told that my butt is sexy...

    4. My cooking skills are mediocre, but I love trying new foods.

    5. I am about as competent as Tim "the Toolman" Talyor...

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  • azzntittiz

    I love this, I like handy men too, my ex who was a soldier used to always fix stuff at his parents house and send me pics of him with his shirt off haha.

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  • ZeussLightningBolt

    How did it switch from "awkward things" to just "things"

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  • Cowboy6666

    Um not sure about my butt but all other stuff you mentioned defines me for sure. I'm math teacher part time, foodie, like to do my household stuff with my tools, likes to apply perfumes, body sprays etc.

    In opposite sex I love to see longer hairs, girly girl looks, kindness, open mindedness, passionate about me, not racist, not rude, funny, flirty with me, foodie etc.

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    • desidoll

      Not racist? In what ways?

    • Cowboy6666

      Well I'm south Asian, if I like a girl from other races she shouldn't have problem with my race, ethnicity. Also she shouldn't hate any other race.

    • desidoll

      I think if someone is attracted to you physically, your race won’t be an issue though but I do see that men from South Asia can have a harder time to date outside compare to the women.

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  • With you on the third one, though I don't think the picture is an example of a sexy ass. To each their own.
    xx
    ~ Mrs Manson

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  • Omar5881

    That sexy butt thing made me crack lol I remembered my female friend and a situation when she was drunk and got obsessed over a random dude's butt in the club lol

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  • TheWombRaider

    If your on this site a lot and you use a phone.. dont say your nerdy... if your on a computer then u might have a shot at that..

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  • AZC90

    Considering that being a nerd is trendy now, it's not all that special.

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  • Andres77

    You and my wife have exactly the same tastes in men.

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  • Browneye57

    What you're really looking for is a guy that can make things happen - and that is rather universal. Women want to be with a guy that is going somewhere and being someone - a success. They want to partner with him and share their life.
    You've broken it down into specific things, but that loses the universal appeal of the basic traits.

    What is always sad is the total lack of ever mentioning what a woman would do for her man. What she brings that is high value to a relationship. It's ALWAYS about what you see that makes you feel a certain way. In other words, it's completely self-centered as to how it affects YOU. Google solipsism - it's a universal female trait.

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    • FatherJack

      " solipsism - it's a universal female trait " ... could not agree more !! Hence I'm happier staying single

    • Titan787

      You both do realize this post was meant as a fun challenge of things she found attractive in men and not at all a complete reference of what she would do in a relationship or what he would do either. It was meant purely for fun (and men are ok here have been joining in on creating their own challenges too.) You both just tried to turn a fun conversation into examining the many flaws of women. If anything, reading both of your comments sound like two men who experienced bad relationships and are bitter about said relationships and are now basing your opinions of all women off of that. Your comments were unecessary and immature on a post geared towards men and women simply having fun together.

    • we are what we are take it or leave it. until you create your artificial wombs and your cyborgs women will keep being the most valueable comodity on earth, cause we perpetuate the human species and offer some company. even if you retract yourselves from the gene pool the successful men of the world will still keep flocking at us by the millions.

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  • Guanfei

    Well, too bad, I don't have the sexy butt, I can't marry you.

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  • Still-alive

    ohh nice. didn't know you wrote something. looks like you tagged my previous account lol

    well i fit the nerdy one to a T there :P

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