Narrow/Diamond-Shaped Eyes (all races)
I don’t know how to fully describe this, so I included multiple pics. I love guys who have sharp, piercing eyes that just cut through you like a 1000-degree knife does with butter. The best way I can describe them is as narrow/diamond-shaped eyes. It seems like a tiny detail, but I personally love it.
A healthy relationship with personal fitness
I don’t need a gym-nut who crushes the game seven days a week. I just want a guy who physically cares for his body, who works out and eats reasonably to keep himself in good shape. No obsessive qualities when it comes to health and fitness, just self-love and genuine concern for his physical health. He can still enjoy food without being a slob, and works out without letting it dominate his life.
Dark hair
Sorry bald guys, but you aren’t my jazz. Also, to the light-haired fellows: I make exceptions for you sometimes, but I greatly prefer brown or black hair that is thick and lightly styled.
No bullshit and to-the-point
I ADORE men who CUT. THE. SHIT. A man who comes up to me, says he finds me beautiful and he wants my number. A man who tells me WHY he is currently upset with me and wants to find a solution. A guy who says what he thinks and doesn’t hold back. There’s no “wait to text her back,” there’s no “give her the silent treatment until she realizes why I’m upset.” He just gets to the point.
Very sexual/physical
I love sexual/sensual touching, groping, affection, and PDA (within reason). I adore a man who wants to grab my ass or fondle my tits while we’re together, whether I’m cooking or we’re just laying around. I also love dudes who want regular sex.
Has a plan
I don’t care if you make a lot of money or not, I don’t care if you have a car. I just want a dude who has a life and plan for his future. I don’t want a guy who lazes on the couch, no job, and expects a mommy to take care of him. It isn’t shallow, it’s reality.
Unfuckable-with
I need a guy who just isn’t fucking bothered, just like me. He’s laid back and people’s bullshit doesn’t get under his skin. He says what he needs to when he wants, puts people in their place when need-be, but knows when someone isn’t worth the energy. I appreciate a guy who isn’t dependent on other people’s attitudes or vibes, he marches to the beat of his own drum.
ALSO … he can handle me, even if I’m being a brat lol. As well as my vulgar humor.
Good style
I like multiple styles, all I really care is he doesn’t look feminine and he looks reasonably put together. No dudes in bummy clothes or Hawaiian/bowling shirts.
Doesn’t try to change/control me
While I am open to my shit behaviours being challenged, what I don’t appreciate are guys trying to make me someone I’m not. I don’t want a man to tell me how to dress, how to do my makeup, or change what I believe. If it isn’t hurting us, leave it be – and I appreciate a man who lets me be me.
He also doesn’t get jealous. Yes, men may try to message me on Instagram; yes, men may look at me in public. But, he doesn’t get jealous. He’s proud and protective, making sure people know his girl is his without the need to feel insecure.
I nominate @JimRSmith and @jellyroo to do this. I will also be doing what I find unattractive.
~ Love Jane.
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