What comes to mind when you hear "hot girl summer"?

[nojokecarmichael]

Hot girl summer to me is having a good summer, living your best life with friends without being in a relationship & having it hold you back from enjoying yourself the way you want.

To others it might be about enjoying yourself in general but also sleeping around with men.

Part 2 of question: I asked a guy if he wanted to go to the beach with me this summer because that was our thing to do last summer. Even mentioned my other friends being there. He asked "aren't you having a hot girl summer?". Where in your mind do those go together? I asked him what him and I going to the beach have to do with me having a hot girl summer but he didn't answer.

I don't see a correlation. Just hanging out together as beach buddies and me enjoying myself this whole summer. 🤔

[Paolaa988]

I agree with your definition. That's what comes to my mind too. Hot girl summer doesn't always mean hoeing around. What's wrong with a single girl having a little bit of her own time for herself and with friends? Nobody bats an eye really when some guys go to strip clubs all the time! It's just not talked about much but if a girl wants to have a hot girl summer, let her be literally! I've had plenty of hot girl summers where i didn't sleep with anyone or date. Even if she does sleep with a guy it's nobody's business or room to judge.

[nojokecarmichael]

exactly, there's always this crappy double standard where what a man does it deemed acceptable but unacceptable when a woman does the same

[cjmtherfcker]

So you despise the value that men place on virtue?

[Paolaa988]

What do you mean @cjmtherfcker I was just saying people make it such a big deal if a girl even has a low body count or has a little fun but for guys nobody bats an eye and that shit gets let go real quick but in reality girls mature faster than guys so what’s the big deal if a girl has a little fun? I’m not at all glorifying or saying hoeing around is okay for a girl either but when guys do that stuff it’s like it’s normalized.

[Still-alive]

that guy is low key trying to slut shame you. pay no attention to him

[cjmtherfcker]

So You feel its unfair that men would value a women who has chosen not to have a little fun over one who has?

[cjmtherfcker]

@Still-alive The mere mention of Sexual Market Value concepts from the male perspective automatically amounts to some sort of sexist oppression?

[Still-alive]

@cjmtherfcker you do you. but its kinda unrealistic... and often double standards

[Still-alive]

@cjmtherfcker typically yes...

[cjmtherfcker]

@Still-alive When you say its a double standard. Your blaming men for placing a higher priority on virtue than women do. Do men get to decide where women prioritize virtue?

[Still-alive]

@cjmtherfcker lets be real here dude you are likely an incel who's just mad at the world because you can't get laid and choose to blame women for your issue. don't give me this malarky on 'virtue'.

[cjmtherfcker]

@Still-alive If that's the case then your saying women get to choose what is and is not acceptable for men to find valuable.

[Still-alive]

@cjmtherfcker no... wtf? im saying YOU place all the value on sex way too much that you blame women for when you can't get it.

[cjmtherfcker]

@Still-alive Lets see if the simp can answer my question without contradicting his self. Or just resort to more name calling

[Still-alive]

@cjmtherfcker hi incel hows life without sex?

[cjmtherfcker]

@Still-alive Its so funny how small brains can only come up with insults when they can't win an argument. lol

[Still-alive]

@cjmtherfcker you've made no argument at all. you just think women get to decide your "virtue" for you... which is just stupid that no one with an actual brain should entertain.

You want to shame women for having a little sexual fun but turn a blind eye to other men who do the same thing. only in your case you aren't having any sex whatsoever so you just blame that on women for not choosing you.

[cjmtherfcker]

@Still-alive I see reading comprehension isn't your thing either. But its ok. Keep simping out here to impress these internet girls.

[Still-alive]

@cjmtherfcker keep on blaming all your insecurities on women too.

[cjmtherfcker]

@Still-alive Def secure enough not to let any women tell me what i can value. Maybe when you grow a pair. Unless ya lady already got em in her purse.

[Still-alive]

@cjmtherfcker no i think you do let women define what you value. you're just hoping others won't notice

[cjmtherfcker]

@Still-alive well im not the one that values sluts. CUCKBOY. You probably kiss yo lady in the mouth after she been gangbanged an shit

[Still-alive]

@cjmtherfcker and there you have it folks. Unbridled unapologetic mysogyny as we all knew you were. My work is done.

[cjmtherfcker]

@Still-alive Does she use lube when she pegs you? Because its obviously a double standard if your the only one doing the penetrating. i mean mysogyny

[Still-alive]

@cjmtherfcker keep demonstrating how miserable of a person you are.

[cjmtherfcker]

@Still-alive Im very happy knowing i won't be raising another mans bastards

[Still-alive]

@cjmtherfcker with any luck you won't be passing any genes off to anyone else ever.

[cjmtherfcker]

@Still-alive lol to late

[Still-alive]

@cjmtherfcker ohh i feel sorry for those organisms then

[cjmtherfcker]

@Still-alive you should be happy wit your sluts bastards. focus on them

[OliviaOfTheScots]

You 2 need to hug it out

[Still-alive]

@OliviaOfTheScots nah im not going anywhere near that thing

[cjmtherfcker]

@OliviaOfTheScots Dude literally start launching insults at me, for trying to engage in a respectful conversation with another person.

[Still-alive]

@cjmtherfcker cause we all knew what you were trying to do

[cjmtherfcker]

@Still-alive Your woman tell you that

[Still-alive]

@cjmtherfcker no i have enough experience to know where people like you love to take your 'logic' with people

[cjmtherfcker]

@Still-alive You don't know shit unless your woman tells you cuckboy. Because as you said. Its sexist oppression for a man to have his on opinion or standards. So STFU go find a slut to put on a pedestal

[russianspy69240]

@Still-alive bahaha I made a reply just to say cjm is a sad troll lmao and I agree with you. Whenever I'm upset I just remember there's people like him who exist who throw things at the wall when they are angry.

[russianspy69240]

i made an account, not a reply. Typo

[melanieeeB]

Actually nothing much... I don't feel like it's that much of a thing here so whatever

[FilmGuy93]

I think your interpretation of what "hot girl Summer" means is probably in the minority. What I think of is a bunch of really attractive women hanging out, partying and being hot.

Honestly, it sounds kind of boring to me, but I guess it's all about living your best life. If that's what you want to do, then get after it

[nojokecarmichael]

Yes, it's all about living your best life, being carefree and 100% yourself.

What do you think of the second part?

[FilmGuy93]

I don’t agree with you on that second part 🙂 but it’s all about living the life you want to live, right? If that’s your idea of a great summer then live it up.

[nojokecarmichael]

Correct... by second part I meant where I mentioned the guy I invited to the beach as my beach buddy, questioning me having "hot girl summer" as if that would have an effect on us going to the beach

[Twinrova]

Does it have something to do with attractive people, or people with a high internal body temperature? If you are represented by the latter group, then please, I would advise you to go to the hospital immediately, but not if you have coughed in the past month, because then you would almost certainly kill grandma.

[Twinrova]

Lmao, thanks for making this mho so my attention could be brought back to this xd

[JDavid25]

Like many other sane people, it's just a way of girls saying that they wanna party, and be committed free and be hoes basically.. LOL.. To different girls it might mean different things and some are trying to make it seem as if it's a more wholesome way of girl's night for the summer".. But nobody believes that.. 😂😂😂

[rjroy3]

Hot Girl Summer is literally about sleeping around. Living up the party life. That's both what the song is about and how it's used.

Him asking that means, he figured you'd be out doin hot girl shit rather than going to the beach with him. Which I'm guessing was on a weekend

[Danny_dan92]

Girls trying to put a title on something so that they downplay the fact that they’re acting like sluts.


We get it. Girls have needs just like us men do, but what bothers the fuck out of me is when they try to put up fronts and act as if that isn’t the case

[Mofunfour20]

He asked that because he doesn't think you're prepared to be exclusive with one guy. Hot girl summer implies that women can sleep around without consequences. False, guys won't take you seriously and will lie to use them for sex.

[nojokecarmichael]

There's no need to be exclusive though. He broke up with me, I just wanted to hang out with him as my beach buddy

[Mofunfour20]

@nojokecarmichael if there's no possibility of serious intimacy then i would rather give my energy to making money or a woman that im attracted to. To be realistic the friendzone is for overweight, and homosexual men.

[MLGbreezy]

Girls that just wanna hoe around but use hot girl summer as woman empowerment to justify their actions

[nojokecarmichael]

wow... maybe it really is woman empowerment without justification, ever though of thought?

[cjmtherfcker]

I sleeping around really empowerment?

[cjmtherfcker]

is sleeping around really empowerment?

[MLGbreezy]

Why do you need a term just to empower yourselves lmao hot girl summer is just a nice way if saying your u wanna be a hoe just call yourself a hoe then 🤣

[nojokecarmichael]

no one wants to deal with opinionated, judgmental men

[Paolaa988]

As if men don't sleep around lmao. What do you guys think? You're gods gift or something?😂

[JDavid25]

@Paolaa988 I don't think that that's what he was getting at at all.. LOL..

[MLGbreezy]

@paolaa988 see this is the issue with woman nowadays you get called out for something and then all logic goes out the window. I never said men didn't sleep around nor did anyone and secondly no one out woman down for sleeping around. If anything it's woman like you with the god complex who have the audacity to go around talking crazy with no evidence , name or reason too do nothing more but start issues and make yourself and other woman like you feel better about yourself and put men down just cause

[abc3643]

Sly and the Family Stone...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1tCc--3xw10

[abc3643]

and Mungo Jerry

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wvUQcnfwUUM

[abc3643]

and DJ Jazzy Jeff and The Fresh Prince (now known by his name Will Smith).
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kr0tTbTbmVA

[have_a_good_day]

Those two idiots better not let those papayas get warm in the sun and end up throwing it away. Jesus. Who the hell eats like that even ; just surrounding yourself with food

[exitseven]

Maybe he is interested in being more than a beach buddy and if you don't see it ever happening he doesn't want to hang out with you.

[nojokecarmichael]

He's someone from my past, we didn't work out

[Mangospacho]

It sounds like a female human in early stages of dehydration since the core body temperature rises when the outside temperature increases therefore increasing the risk of hyperthermia or heat exhaustion which can lead to heat stroke.

[Coolkat12345]

Well he seems to think that YOU indicated that you ONLY want to hang out with girl friends and not him. In reality you were trying to make him jeoulous by saying something like that as a tease but he didn’t understand that part.

[nojokecarmichael]

Trying to make him jealous how? We broke up, I don't care about him enough to make him jealous. I wanted a beach buddy and even invited him to hang with me and other people so he didn't think I'd think something more would come from it

[Coolkat12345]

Are ya married? Or have ya been dating for a while? If so how long?

[nojokecarmichael]

we dated for like 5-6 months and broke up

[Coolkat12345]

It sounds like you still like him, why did you break up?

[nojokecarmichael]

Nope, just curious as to why he might have asked from a guys perspective. I started to really dislike him towards the end of the relationship. He's a good person to hang out with at the beach and that was what we originally planned before the break up

[nojokecarmichael]

sometimes he acts like he doesn't like me or I did something to him. Though I'm being nice to him

[Coolkat12345]

Well just tell him to marry you if he likes you and if he says no then try to find somebody else to go to the beach with. If ya dated for that long it seems like he likes you tho

[RHK36]

Your explanation was what comes to mind. I guess he's asking because you hanging out again with him has him wondering if it means anything. If it does, then it kind of goes against hot girl summer.

[AlexanderAnttila]

What comes to my mind is just some new shallow trend among teen girls to explode their Instagram with and decorated with some generic name like that.

[Floppy2112]

Women having lots of meaningless sex with a lot of guys, consequences be damned..

[nojokecarmichael]

That's one view of it.

Why do you think the guy might have thought when he asked me weren't I supposed to have a hot girl summer? The two have nothing to do with each other.

[Kenper]

With guys or girls

[nojokecarmichael]

@Kenper guys but I never specified that to him

[Floppy2112]

Beats me, you'll have to ask him. That's not a question I would have thought to ask. Maybe he's curious if you like him, or if he's just going to be another notch on the belt. Perhaps, he prefers one of the two, I just don't know which one.

[RickVienna]

Very hot... I hope I am not to shy to go on the nude beach to see all this wonderful ladies...
I think he wants a relationship with you... not only to be the beach buddie

[nojokecarmichael]

we dated previously and it didn't work out

[RickVienna]

For you... but for him?

[nojokecarmichael]

for either of us, he was the one that broke up with me

[RickVienna]

He is an Idiot

[Wise4myage]

Pretty girls in skimpy bikinis and lots of nudity. :)

[nojokecarmichael]

I can imagine it... Why do you think he'd ask me about me having a hot girl summer as if it had something to do with a going swimming at the beach though?

[Wise4myage]

He's referring to you when he said hot girl summer but he could also mean girls in general. If he was talking about the heat, he mention it separately I think.

[Wise4myage]

He wants some action, lol.

[joeldalton]

He probably figures hot girl summer = hoeing around.

[nojokecarmichael]

yeah, I'm thinking he does but what does it have to do with me and him going to the beach. What does my sexual activity have to do with me coming to get him to go swimming at the beach

[joeldalton]

Maybe he figured you’d be too busy being a hoe

[nojokecarmichael]

makes sense. I don't get why he'd think it considering summer is a few months long and Its not like I'll spend all day everyday at the beach

[joeldalton]

I don't know. Maybe he thinks he’s not worthy?

[Guanfei]

Because it has been made into "I'll fuck dump my boyfriend so I can fuck anything that moves"
And that's the best case, many will just cheat and call it freedom.

[Guanfei]

-first fuck

[jaclyndavis]

It's that hot girl bummer anthem
turn it up and throw a tantrum🎶

[Ryfyle]

A female Ecology major baffled and bewildered as a California Wildfire decimates her Prius leaving only slag and still molten aluminum.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I think of her

[Jamie05rhs]

I've never heard that term before. I didn't know that this was a thing.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

It isn’t. Losers make this shit up for attention.

[IraqLobster]

To me "hot girl summer" is a group of dumb blonde girls sleeping around dumb pumped guys.

[Iron_Man]

Hot girls at the beach with the pics. But I don’t see any here

[Anonymous]

Interesting to hear about a girl asking a guy to go to the beach together because girls normally are never the ones to ask a guy out or to ask a guy to hang out

[he-takes-a-part]

Beach vacation gets top priority in the bucket list.

[friendzoned4life]

Girl is going to be a slut and doesn't deserve love in the rest of her life for doing so

[SpaceGalaxy]

Girls acting like whores thinking they are real "CUTE"

[Anonymous]

hot girl summmer?

sounds totally gay. arte you a lesbo?

[Asianguy123]

hot summer is like hot beach with hot wind and eating hot food and get sweat.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

Do you have an original thought in your head? Seriously did you just need to post this to prove that group think exists?

[nojokecarmichael]

What?

[electromagnetic]

Visible sweat stains on a black shirt.

[BakedBeanieBabie]

Being a girl in the summertime.

[chapawapa]

Getting wild and feeling sexy

[Anonymous]

Hoez in barely clothed.

[cjmtherfcker]

you gonna b out piping it up, T

[Uptowngirl88]

$$, pool parties, having fun

[Jack9949]

To me its about girls showing their titties

[blondfrog]

I think of a girl in the summer.

[UnknownUser01]

A single girl hanging out with her friends ?

[Maspolomas]

One guy living with three women in a apartment

[888theGreat]

Skinny dipping this summer

[bamesjond0069]

Makes me think she's a ho or slut. Nasty ass girl.

[Kenper]

Damn girls now are so gay

[MCheetah]

A new porn movie?

[JamesRandiDebates]

Hot girl summer = Sweaty sex!

[Pink2000]

Megan the stallion

[Ryfyle]

Reference? Otherwise that just melts brains.

[Pink2000]

@Ryfyle she started hot girl summer. She’s a rap artist. Google her

[Ryfyle]

A Stallion is a male horse though. Does she have a suspicious penis?

[Pink2000]

@Ryfyle no. She’s just a big girl. She’s tall but very pretty.

[Ryfyle]

I will take your word on that.

[Pink2000]

@Ryfyle

[Ryfyle]

Still might need something for scale.

[Pink2000]

@Ryfyle she’s taller than the clothing rack behind her

[Anonymous]

A girl with a fever on a summer day

[Anonymous]

A poor excuse by girls to behave like hoes

[jahaims]

Basic

[TallAnon]

Near disappointments

[Anonymous]

Life on easy mode.

[CertifiedHandsomity]

White Boy Summer

[Lofas2121]

Babes in bikinis