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@inspired by recent post on plus sized women in bikinis

{pics from my own swim wear last summer... sorry I didn’t understand zooming cropping and marking🤦‍♂️😬 bit I’ve he sent since ☝️😅}

Many answers were in my opinion self centered and and unrealistic.” I don’t want to see it so it is wrong”.

The illogic often being “ If our of shape, should not be seen.

Dont look? 🤔👀🤷‍♀️

Do you think I want to see a strangers butt cheeks in my face? I surely do not. Solution- I just don’t stare bc I don't know what I’ll see and do not want want to find out.
Problem.
Solved.

I’m just wondering... for ex A burn victim is fit in shape thin but you find their burns unsightly, do you say they should not leave their house?

I’m guessing you would not say this, most likely not THINK it... likely, if reasonably polite, will avoid staring. If you are enlightened you will be ale to look and see a person not scars.. few people will say “stay home forever. Maybe extreme narcissists 🤷‍♀️

So seriously, why can’t you do the same for people in Bikinis... Do you seriously think anyone not perfect -in your opinion- should walk around in a tent?

bikinis are cooling. That’s a big motivator -not simply showing off. why shouldn’t a large person be cool. No one knows why anyone is in the shape they are in snd who cares anyhow it’s not your body.

(let alone the fact being large doesn’t mean you will look bad. Inversely being thin doesn’t mean you will look good.)

Swim wear should be primarily about swimming. What kind of world Is it when where attire comes before the activity you are dressed for.

I think this seve dependence on aesthetic is spiritually bankrupt and 💯 demoralizing.

I can’t claim superior there bc I tend to avoid showing my body when I swim due to scars. Length I go to - it’s absurd.

continued*

1. Is the skirt OK as is. I am wearing shorts.

(I am not wearing tights- but I could if it would help. If so , what color would you suggest)?

2 is the color of the shirt OK with the skirt?

3 Is the style of shirt OK?

4 I know people Have said they find these boots provocative. I wear them bc I like the style and bc they cover scars... Does it look like I’m trying to be provocative pairing them With this outfit, or do they suit it?

5 What distance picture zooming is best for these kinds of questions?

Apparently, The skirt was on backwards... I wrote this draft & took pics early morning and I just now discovered The tag is on the front lol no clue why. 🤔🤷‍♀️
—Is the length OK NOW?
( look below)

From the recent 3 pics... WHAT DISTANCE WORKS BEST?

Do these boots make the outfit risqué’
( NOT what I’m going for)?

Hope you are having a pleasant afternoon. ☺️

Thank You 🌺

Luna is 4 years old. Her father, Jasper, abandoned her when she was born because her mother died while giving birth to her. Now she lives with her grandmother and her uncle, Milo, who's 21 years old and deaf. Milo is her main caregiver and basically acts like her father. She has taken showers/baths with Milo several times and they share a room. At some point he'd pee in front of her while she brushed her teeth in the bathroom. Or while out in public she'd watch him in the men's bathroom.

Milo is also the one who does her hair every now and then, and unfortunately has swat her hands a couple times in anger.

When her aunt found out about this, she was angry and said that this is disgusting, gross, would cause emotional scars, and that the grandmother should be doing more instead of having Milo do everything.

I find em super sexy but only like certain ones (of the guys i post on the poll). I hate the hooped ring ones as well as the black barbell ones. I used to want one and I also wanted my guy to have em... but i’d fear he had more than just that piercing... and well i dont like more than a brow piercing on a guy. Also, i get bad headaches so a piercing would prob make it worse. But I don't know i just find em so hot on dudes. Prob cause it reminds me of the eyebrow scar look. Plus naturally arched eyebrows like a Disney Prince are just gorgeous on guys
#FeelFreeToList #iLikeEyebrows

{{scars worse on lower leg I tend to not wear shorts W/ low shoes }}This is once again not primarily a “how do I look” question. I’m posting it under “ how do I look” bc I want assurance of its deletion in 24 hours.

(The pictures look weird in general. They are bumpy and I’m tokd I look wider in pic than irl— but you still get the idea of boots with romper. Also, My left leg is on the storage container bc the books were falling. In case anyone noticed and was going to ask😛🤓)

Thank You 💗