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Even if you don't have the correct reproductive organs to give birth... If you COULD, what would you choose?

5 weeks ago, I gave birth to my first child, a son I named Merlin, & did it natural.
My preferred birth plan was to go natural, have a water birth & only have an episiotomy if the doctor recommended it.
Well, I got to do it natural, but the hospital I was at didn't have birthing tubs, but I had very supportive nurses on duty & my doctor told me he was going to do the episiotomy after my son's head wouldn't rip me after being RIGHT THERE for 2 contractions.
If I'm being honest, I caved once the third contraction occurred & asked for an epidural. The nurse told me that they would bring the specialist to the room, but they couldn't promise that I would be able to get the medication. I didn't end up getting the epidural, my son was practically out of me when the specialist arrived.
I'm very happy, now that it's over, that my son was moving so quickly that I couldn't get the epidural. I had completed my birth plan, partially, as I intended. I was proud of myself & couldnt believe how AMAZING I felt after it was all said & done.
I couldn't, & still can't, believe I had pushed out an 8.5lb, 22in baby & felt better than expected.
If I were to get pregnant again, I would go natural again, especially after what my nurses informed me of how labor is different from natural & the epidural.
My nurses informed me that there are fewer & fewer people coming in & saying they want to "try" going natural, that there is absolutely zero shame in changing your mind & asking/getting the epidural later! Active labor HURTS! Many people who do go natural only go through with it because it is too late to even do the epidural, as was my mother's case when she went into labor with me.

So, what would YOU do personally?

I heard that vasectomy is an easy safe not complicated procedure and it is reversible. You also can get kids despite having a vasectomy if you want any kids. Is that not great? Men have 100% control over their body and dont have to worry about making anyone pregnant and paying child support.
Unfortunately for women it is very difficult to get sterilisation since many doctors refuse it if you are under 35 and have no kids. The other contraceptives are harmful due to hormons which literally change your mood/personality, libido. The best contraceptives are male/female condoms and an intelligent fertility tracker

"When comparing this procedure to a tubal ligation, some clear pros are that vasectomies are quicker, safer, and less expensive. A vasectomy takes only around 10 to 30 minutes and is performed using a local anesthetic. This makes it a safer procedure than a tubal ligation, which requires general anesthesia."- google search

If I was a man, i immediately would do it since it has tooo many benefits. I may be wrong but i think husbands owns their wifes since the women go through pregnancy and a painful birth so he can have kids