What do I do about my sister getting pregnant?

[Anonymous]

I have found out that my sister is pregnant. The thought of my sister being pregnant is absolutely a scary thing right now. I do not think she is ready financially. I'm scared for her. She just got out of an 8 year relationship with this guy. During divorce, she met this guy at work. They got together December. Been together for almost 3 months.. Already living with this guy. I've only met this guy twice in my life. He is respectful and well.
Lot of family and friends dont know. My mom is shocked. I'm still overthinking.. This whole thing is an accident. She wasn't on birth control. Almost having sex every night. Admitted to unprotected, so forth. She's not responsible for a child. Always ask my mom for money.

I'm really worried for her. :( I'm sorry for those who have a view on this, but her first reaction. She didn't want the baby. Came home from doctors. Was scared that her boyfriend was gonna persuade her to keep it. They end up keeping it, and I'm just like...

I'm worried for my mom. My whole family. A lot of us have never met this guy before. I know the best I can do is support, but I'm just worried about the aftermath..

[Interstate]

There is nothing you CAN do since the damage has already been gone. And I wouldn't worry about your Sister, I would worry about the baby! The Sister chooses to be irresponsible, and now an innocent life is going to be forced to to be put in the middle of your Sister's irresponsibility. All you can do is be there for the child as it grows up and show them the proper way to live. People can only change if they choose to. You can go all out to help her until the cows come home, but until she sees the light and says to you she is prepared to transition, all you can do is step back and let her realize on her own just how much she has messed up. The one and only responsible action she has made so far is not killing an innocent life!

But also, I would be there for the Boyfriend. She obviously has him blinded by her fake personality. With him all you can do is keep your fingers crossed that eventually he will see what she is really like and say to her that he can't be with somebody who has the morals of a do-whatever-on-a-whim way of thinking. He can still be there for the child, but I have learned personally that two people who are in a bad way in terms of the health of their relationship can only cause harm if they stay together for the sake of the child. But just keep the b. f and baby in thought and be there for them if she puts them in a situation.

Good Luck!!

[integrale77]

Too much to read so I'll answer to top question.

Support her, however it happened of she is having the baby then it's going to be better for her to be supported rather than anyone turning there back on her leaving her to fend for herself!

[England4eva]

The best thing you can do is relax firstly. Cause it’s beyond your control, so don’t try and overthink a way out of this for her. What’s done is done. You can maybe get her to join a baby parenting class or something? This will help her if she’s not that responsible as a person. Could always use the cover story that a friend went to one and it helped prepare her for baby? Next thing is you need to get properly introduced to this guy. Meeting him twice is not enough if he’s going to be the farther of your niece. You need to find out if he is stable and committed etc and not hear it third person from your sister.
No one on here has the right to judge your sister. Yes it was irresponsible but it was her body to be irresponsible with. Most people fall pregnant by accident, so this isn’t an unusual case. Just share a lot of love and support with her right now, no matter how worried you actually feel. It is in fact a beautiful thing, it’s just it comes with a lot of work and responsibility. I wish you and her well

[TonyMetal___86]

See why sex should come after marriage miss england, a man ain't a man if he's not going to man up and hold his responsibilities towards the woman who's carrying his baby and his baby too...

Provide a warm house, food, love and care for them so you deserve to be called a man, not just a male!

It can be a warm pop up tent too 😜

[England4eva]

@TonyMetal___86
Hey Tony, I’m sure her sister will be well looked after by the guy. It sounds like he is excited to be a dad, and if that’s the case he will help out. Pray it all works out, her big sister is a bit worried 🙏

[TonyMetal___86]

I hope so sweet miss england 😌

[DermalPunch]

Yiu are worried and scared. This is understandable. Be as supportive as you can and don't stress her out. When you are hokding your brand new niece or nephew you won't be thinking abiut all this.

[DaveJord]

Well honestly you can not do a dang thing about it, its happing. Worry all you want but get over it, because if she's keeping it there ain't shit you can do but lose sleep over something you can not change or effect.

[Andres122]

Been there. Just be happy for her and supportive. I was the only one in my family to support my sis in a difficult moment, and she will thank me for ever. She needs to feel that you are there for her, the least she needs is criticism and talking at her back. Trust me, maternity brings about maturity. My sis was a child before the baby.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Your sister is moving very wreckless, pim not sure I have certain advice for you because what happens with a child is unpredictable

[DeepPassionateLover]

Its her life and her own choice, learn from her choices and practice safe sex

[worldscolide]

you dont do anything.. It sucks, but its true. you let her live her life. She made her choice, If that is what she wants you need to live with it.

[OddBeMe]

Why are you this worried about everyone? Do you need anti anxiety meds?

[n4meAL]

let her take care of the baby don't abort

[moviedude714]

Did she get pregnant too young?

[Iron_Man]

Have the baby be supportive

[TheFlak38]

nice whore your sister