What recommendations would you advice someone who is so stressed out that they are getting annoyed and snapping at everyone?

[Anonymous]

I am currently pregnant and I am so stressed out and annoyed. Due to circumstances I have to live with my dad and older brother. Neither of them will close the bathroom door when they use the toilet they will just leave the door wide open, while my dad is a heavy smoker to the point he will smoke every 15 to 30 minutes what's worse is he will smoke in the bathroom where there is no ventilation in there except a tiny fan. The smell alone stinks up the bathroom so bad that as a non smoker I can't breathe when I have go in there. While my older brother the bin will be right next to him but he won't put his rubbish in the bin instead he will throw it in the cupboard or on the sink when he has ice cream he completely bends the spoons claiming the ice cream is too hard, when he comes home from work he gets pissed off if nobody has cooked dinner this is despite the fact he was asked what he wanted for dinner and he said he would make a sandwich.

I am also dealing with a boss who knows I am pregnant and knows I need to finish up work at the end of the month but this boss expects me to continue working up until I give birth and she also expects me to still work on the days I have my hospital appointments because she believes I can attend my appointments after work even though the last available appointment is 3.30pm and I don't finish work until 4pm and I don't get home until 5pm

My sisters are also stressing me out with constantly asking if I have picked a name for the baby yet. I think I have told them over 30 times now I don't have a name picked out which is the truth on top of this one sister in particular felt it was appropriate to demand access to our deceased mother's death certificate which I refused mostly because she refused to tell me why she wanted it for and also because I do not trust her with anything after she took something of mum's that was meant to go to me that she refuses to give back

Updates

1 y

I want to move out unfortunately I just don't have the funds at this time to be able to afford to move into my own place even while working

[Guy13]

To lessen family stress, I leave the situation before it gets too stressful. The first time there is yelling or throwing then I am out. Exercise is very helpful. Control breathing and those exercises help much. Finally, if it is required visit your doctor for suggestions. Try these.

[Asker]

I think in a way I have gotten to the point i am snapping because I have repeatedly told them to close the damn bathroom door when they are using the toilet and for not flushing the toilet I've gone off at my dad for smoking in the bathroom neither of them even really bothered to help to clean when we had a house inspection. I seriously would move but I have no choice but to stay for now because my name is on the lease and it was also my $2,500 that was used for the bond money which I won't get back until our lease is up or if no damage is done to the property but I am already starting to see the walls in the bathroom being affected from dad constantly smoking in there. My brother is in his 40's and he refuses to clean or learn how to cook. What money I am making from working is going towards rent and having to buy baby products. My brother is also someone who will make sure the doors are slammed shuts at 2 or 3 in the morning, he will make sure to park behind my car and block me in so if I go into labour I have no choice but to walk to the hospital. My brother truly doesn't care about blocking my car in.

[Anonymous]

Start an exercise program and look into anger management.

[Asker]

I can do that but I also need to find ways to get my brother and dad to understand what they are doing is wrong. Both are putting me at risk of losing my $2,500 in bond money as the bathroom walls are now starting to be affected by his heavy smoking neither of them bothered to even help clean when we had a house inspection so parts of the house were a complete an utter mess I tried my best to do the work but I had a medical appointment that I needed to attend so I was limited to how much cleaning I could do plus when I did try and clean my brother in particular wouldn't clean up after himself he would just instead throw the rubbish in the pantry or on the sink. My dad refuses to even look after the bird he brought, he claimed he cleaned the cage out 2 days ago but the poor thing had all poop in the water and no seed at all. And the entire bird cage was absol disgusting.

[whorable]

lmk when you get a good answer bc im guilty of making my bad mood everyones problem lol. (not prego)

[tallblondejohm]

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