How can I fix my rudeness to my parents?

[Anonymous]

I bought bread when I got home and my parents noticed it I said its for my coworker its 5 actually I was about to give it the other to my mom. She asked if I got salary already because I bought it she's just surprised because I dont have money. (And its my first ever office job maybe she's just happy to ask if I got salary?) I replied they should mind their own business. But I still live with them and they help me financially before I was unemployed and up til today for bus fares. I got a job and my mom even wash my own clothes, iron them , cook me home made meals to bring to work so Im sad cuz I said that. I offered my mom a bread but she doesn't like to eat it because I was so rude. :'( Im just sad. I can't stop thinking what I did.

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Yeah I regret being rude to them Im so sad :'(

[Cabarhev]

You could:

-Try doing more for yourself so you'd feel better about setting boundaries.

-Start small with small acts of kindness, politeness,

-Try to be a little more empathetic with them

-Don't be too hard on yourself. (This last one is key in my opinion.)

[Anonymous]

You need to renew your mind. The best way of doing this is through the Word of God:

Ephesians 6:2

“Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise;)”

[Asker]

Renew how? Like praying to God?

[Opinion Owner]

Reading scripture out loud, accepting Jesus as your personal Lord and savior and being reborn in the spirit. When this occurs it changes you. I knew someone that was always rude to their parents but after being reborn, instead of arguing and being rude, they prayed for them instead.

They even laid hands and the Holy Spirit healed their parents from a severe pain.

After you apologize to them, you can make sure it won't happen again by becoming a new person.

[Opinion Owner]

Did you apologize to your parents?

www.youtube.com/shorts/JJ1MI7eGdhI?feature=share

[Asker]

I didn't. But I will. I will help her change her name someday because she has discrepancy in her name that needs a lot of money. Im working I don't know how much we will spend on it but I will help her to fix her name.

[MsProsperity]

Buy her something very nice and apologise. Imagine how your life will be without your parents or go to the orphanage, you’ll start seeing how important parents are and you’ll start appreciating them

[Dinklex3]

Do some self reflecting. Why are you so rude?

[Asker]

Because I was stressed at work and I lashed on my parents and I regret it

[Dinklex3]

Did you properly apologize and explain?

[Anonymous]

I feel you, I always regret being rude but I can’t stop.

They have been the most caring parents.

hope you find a way, They really deserve love.

[Asker]

Like how? Im so rude and doesn't deserve them :'( theyve always been good to me.

[Opinion Owner]

Keep trying until you find a way to control it.

[Asker]

Yeah okay I have an idea on my first salary I would treat them nice things like maybe eating out in restaurant with them buying them groceries and paying water and electric bills to show appreciation and gratitude for what they've done to me.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but don’t make it seem like an occasion solely for them.
Make it seem like you were happy to get your first salary and wanted to celebrate It with them.

[Asker]

I wanted it to celebrate with them like sharing my achievements with my family

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah

[butterly248]

It didn't work for me sadly

[Asker]

Wym?

[butterly248]

You can't change people

[Asker]

I know but I always feel guilty everytime Im rude to my family Im sad Im hurting them