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honestly I think is true I have cheated on every single one of my past relationship is truly something I can't control

Me and my husband have known each other since middle school (I was his first girlfriend). We dated in highschool and then we broke up bc of long distance. After we broke up i found out he cheated on me. Two years passed and we met up for a date. We fell in love all over again. He's in the military and getting stationed out of the country so in order to be together we decided to get married (all of this happened within 3 weeks). Now I'm a little paraniod since he has cheated in the past. So is it true, once a cheater always a cheater?

My teacher gives us tests and a couple of students would cheat. It bothered me but not enough to report them. But now he gave us a test that is worth so much that it would either drop our grades terribly or boost it up off the charts. They students that are always cheating don't do their homeworks, text and talk a lot during class. And they took photos from the answer sheet when the teacher wasn't in the room. I'm really upset because the kids that actually are trying in class can't get an A but the ones that aren't trying and cheating are getting higher grades than us. I want to report it it to the head of department. My friends are telling me not to because I don't have proof and that "no one likes a snitch "

It doesn't matter what kind of cheating. It doesn't matter the situation behind it. I'm talking very generalized here when it comes to the question, both emotional and physical cheating count. But I am talking about a marraige or serious long term relationship. Not a relationship that is kinda serious or short term. If the person you have a bond with (one that you hoped for the rest of your life) cheated on you, what would you do?

The reason I ask this is because, personally, I don't think I could leave the person I'm with if he cheated. And if anyone has read my opinions on cheaters, well they certainly aren't good. I despise cheating. I absolutely hate it. I think it's a disgusting thing to do to someone. It tears that person apart and leaves them with monumental emotional baggage.

I would never forgive someone who did this to me. I would never be able to look at them the same way again. I would never be able to trust that person again. But I don't think I'm strong enough to leave them, either. I think it's because I don't have very much respect for myself. I might even think that I deserved it. I don't think I could find anyone else that would love me the same way. I've always been a doormat. I love unconditionally (I'd like to say I have conditions, but I just don't think I do realistically). People can hurt me all they want and I would take it. I would be so unhappy, but I don't think I'd deserve better.

It's all hypothetical, since I haven't been cheated on (and my partner would never do something so horrible, he's just not capable of it. He treats me wonderfully and is the best thing I could ever dream of, which I am lucky and blessed to have, because the wrong guy could destroy me very easily), but I can see myself being that person who stays. I would love to say that I'd leave and never look back (and that's always the advice I give people who have been cheated on), but I can't honestly say that I could. I'd never forgive or forget, but I don't think I'd leave. And you know, that makes me really sad to think about.

I'm just curious if there are any people that feel similar?