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I've been married for 7 years, but over the past year and a half, I've fallen in love with someone else. Is divorce the right choice? Before any name calling begins, please understand that I wasn't looking for someone else, but I fell in love with this friend of mine anyway. I have also never physically cheated.

Long Story short: I had a strictly friends with benefits relationship with a guy but one night I had slept with another guy as me and the other guy were not dating, never hung out and only met to sleep with each other so I didn't think it would bother him if I slept with someone else. He found out and got very angry at me. He shouted at me infront of all of his room mates and he called me some realy mean names. I decided after that night that we should not continue our friends with benefits relationship as I was confised by him and thought maybe he liked me. We didn't speak or see each other for 3 months but two nights ago we decided to meet up. One of my freinds who went to a party of his told me he was speaking badly of me 3 months later at this party so when i saw him I just asked him if he was saying things about me to people and what it was he was saying. He then lost it with me and told me. Starting calling me names and stupid again and this time I said mean things in response (please know I am not one to fight as i hate it, I dont call people names and I dont likebeing rude) but for some reason I was really hurtful and I know I hurt him by the things I said as he deleted me off of everything and deleted my number and said he didn't want to see me again. I feel terrible for being mean and feel as if I should just send him a text apologising just so he knows i did not mean what i said and that when he thinks of me it will not be negatively. I hate fighting with peopleor ending things on a bad note but I am scared he will be angry i text him as he delted my number and me off of everyhting so he clearly doesn't want anything more to do with me but I also do not want to leave things so negatively between us, so my question is should i send the text (I will also say i think it is good we no longer hang out but i just dont want things tobe negative between us) or should I leave it as he clearly doesn't want to speak with me anymore?