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I just recently moved and needed a guy from the company I use to come in and hook up my internet.

He greeted me and we went in and got started. He was friendly and we chatted about random things, like I could have gotten a cheaper apartment in anotber town.

Once it was set up I tested the internet and was disappointed that the speed was slightly slower. He said why do you even need fast speeds? Do you game or something? I said yeah.. he's like wow really? For real? You're a girl gamer? And he asked me what I play on and what games I play. I said I play a few games but mostly play league right now. He joked and said the game was really old and he couldn't believe people still played. Then we talked about our favorite champs. As he was leaving he asked for my gamer tag. I gave it to him and he left.

He never added me. :( I tried texting him with the number he used to call me to confirm our appointment. But all I said was hi and he was like hey? And then I chickened out. 😅

I was wondering if he was flirting with me and I missed my chance not giving him a proper social media contact, or just being nice.

So I matched with this guy two weeks ago. He’s 4 years older than me. He’s very intelligent, didn’t talk about sex, and seemed to wanna get to know my likes and interests and play 21 questions. I got his phone number and we texted and he texts back right away. We also video chatted a few times. I’m pretty shy and not that open. I’ve been having trouble with friends and needed someone to vent to and vented to him (mistake one I think that scared him away). I also vented about how I didn’t like my family that much (mistake 2 my parents yell a lot and are overbearing). We wanted to hang out on Saturday but I kept giving him the go around because I wasn’t sure if I wanted too. Friday night he said he got a text from his sister and will have to cut the convo short (it was a video call) and there was a family emergency that he won’t be around all weekend for and he’s upset about. I asked if he wanted to reschedule on Saturday - still no answer. He also unmatched with me on the app - not sure if it was recent or not but still. I don’t have the best self esteem and it shows. He isn’t mean or anything and was being polite but I was very vague in my question responses and there was a lot of awkward silences that entire hour we video chatted. We also stayed up until 3 the night before (Thursday night) video chatting and it was still awkward but not as awkward on Friday. I was tired and kinda bitchy and snappy about my friend. The guy hasn’t responded to any of my texts. I don’t know what I did wrong but okay. He said I seem like I wanna open up but I’m scared I might scare him away or something and he doesn’t bite lol and told me to have a good night and try to have a good weekend and he will talk to me tomorrow (Friday going into Saturday) and he never did. He genuinely seemed curious about my likes, dislikes, interests, music tastes etc and thank god not once did he mention sex or anything sexual and I’m so happy about that but still I don't know where I went wrong.