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Met a guy. We hit it off real quick and are insanely attracted to each other. We have common things, and enjoy each other’s company. We’ve only been together for less than a month & he’s already asked me to be his and girlfriend.

We made out on our first date because the chemistry was there and obviously whenever we hang out, there’s makeout sessions and touching. We can’t keep distance!

However, I told him that I am saving myself for marriage so sex is out of the question under any circumstance. He had a hard time processing it but the message is clear to him now from the way he acts and talks to me.

My question is, how do I know if he’s only sexually attracted to me or if he’s interested in me and not just my body? I like him as a whole but how do I know if he’s just after a Virgin or if he really likes me?

It gets to the point where everything you do... annoys them or they start wanting to date other people because they feel trapped/ don't care about what you're doing/they stopped texting you first unless you bother them!

What the fuck, honestly? Why would anyone act this way if they DID want to stay with you? Is this how a mature person would act--hell no? Is this how someone would act if you were the best they could do--hell no! Note; In this scenario you're a complete catch and most people would ask you why the fuck you still put up with their bullshit.

I'm at the point where if someone wants to breakup with you--they should just do it and not be such a coward! Why don't people just end relationships and stop being such a desperate jerk?

I honestly have no clue what makes me a man repellent. When I even used to work with kids, the little/teen boys were always so rude towards me. It’s always been this way. I’ve lost 80+ lbs. Try to maintain healthy looking skin and hair. Dress casual but stylish. And with these modifications, I’m still invisible to men, however I’m complimented. People tend to believe I am single by choice/out of pickiness, however, that isn’t the case. If it were, I wouldn’t be posting this. I cannot find a date or a boyfriend to save my life. I don’t think I act desperate for attention, I have an active dating app and that’s it. I don’t generally send messages first or push guys to like me. I’m very quiet and even with my weight loss, I don’t notice a change in the attention I’ve received. I’ve seen girls, from average to beautiful, that have guys flock to them. I wish I was a girl with options but that isn’t the case. If I am around a cute guy that I met through a person, they either don’t notice or are kind of standoff-ish towards me. What gives?