Search Results: rushing into a relationship

My ex is scared of me but he loves me?

Me and my boyfriend were together for a long time. He mentally abused me so badly that it turned to violence on my end. I couldn't take his alcoholism and his insults and cheating that I hit him with a belt and grabbed...

BrunetteBabe1005

Explorer Age: 32

Ugh what would you do boyfriend listens to friends ain't thinking for himself?

My boyfriend and I have been dating and are long distance cause of college. We are each others firsts date, kiss etc. Going into the relationship he knew i didn't want to rush into sex and he agreed. Obviously sometimes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this guy just shy and maybe lacks confidence?

When I first met him I thought that he was just shy. He would ask me to hang out, but he didn't seem to have a problem making the move on me, like cuddling me and everything. Things got confusing between us where we got...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Girls, are there signs that you give to a guy when you want him to get physical?

Most guys don't want to rush into a physical relationship so fast that it sends a girl packing, so they sit back trying to guess when it's the right time to start getting physical. We suspect that you ladies are trying to...

OlderAndWiser

Editor Age: 71

Why These 4 Relationships Work For a Second But Ultimately Fail

1. You're dating the wo/man child It works : at first if you are the type of person who likes to have total control in a relationship. You love the power or they are letting you take charge of everything. You love having...

BeeNee

Editor Age: 43

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Is it okay to distance myself to the guy I like because he is too good for me?

Right now i can say i am in the lowest or down point of my life feeling useless. I have this guy I like and eased a bit of my sadness when i vent it out to him last day. He said and I know he likes me but we are not...

blue_is_my_fave

Xper 3 Age: 35

My ex thinks she may be settling if we get back?

I'm very confused. That past 4-5 months have been wild. I was no contact for a couple of weeks and she kept phoning me so I answered... We had a nice talk, just catching up, she told me that she thinks we should go for...

CM-123

Xper 4 Age: 28

We just starting dating, but I'm not too sure how I am feeling about the extra baggage?

This guy and I have been talking for maybe a month max and we met on the app Tinder. He seems like a nice guy (as they do at first) but I can't help but not know where I stand with him. After we talked for about a week,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I need help deciding his behavior?

my ex boyfriend and I been together for 3yrs before we broke up 7 months ago. I found out there was another girl which he denied in the beginning & later confessed that they were "just friends". I knew they weren't just...

FashionistaChick

Xper 7 Age: 35

The story of a heartbroken man, Is this guy just taking it slow but is actually interested in committing one day?

I met this guy 2 months ago. Since I met him, he has pursued me as far as hanging out. Since the beginning he told me that he wanted to take things slow with me, but when we would see each other he would end up holding my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The Creepy Stereotype and Why You Still Can't Find the "Right" Person.

Guys don't worry, we're not "Creepers" we're just ugly. Don't worry, you're not really ugly, beauty is subjective. Everyone has there own taste and what they find attractive. What matters is being true to yourself....

Aristides

Xper 5 Age: 34

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She's just looking for friends, but has developed feelings for one of these friends?

I have a friend who is using OKCupid to meet new friends in the area because she is new to the city. She meets these new people and lets them know that she just wants to be friends. She is not currently looking for a...

gbjackalope

Xper 5 Age: 36

What's the point of lying about yourself? Is it just low self esteem?

Was seeing a guy that I met off an online dating app for a few months and he said he wanted to take things really slow (sex and all) since his previous relationships he rushed into. I believed him but he started to become...

glitterberryalisa

Xper 7 Age: 33

Is it meant for us to be together?

Me and this guy I have known since I was very young keeps crossing paths and I wonder is it fate because like 3 or 4 years ago we had started dating but it was difficult and we were definitely young and we didn't talk for...

Missy224

Xper 5 Age: 24

Much help needed with a girl... never felt like this before?

Hey Guys, so I hooked up with a girl last summer and didn't see her again till November where we then had sex. I've seen her probably 5 times since then and had sex and then went to her sorority date night where she told...

mnelson3932

Xper 4 Age: 31

How should I approach a situation I have with a girl I have been seeing for months?

mnelson3932

Xper 4 Age: 31