Search Results: she never replies to my messages

My crush has viewed my instagram stories for a long time and he never misses them despite me updating my story really often.

Not only he views all of them but he’s several times been one of the first people to view them like within minutes.

I have reached out to him couple times by replying to his stories. It usually talkes him max 10 minutes to reply to my message when I’ve replied to his story (I mean my first message to him during each conversation).

Last time we talked was 6 weeks ago. I really want to talk to him again but I don’t want to chase him either.

I usually refrain from these types of post but this woman is infuriating me!
I’m 10 years older than my partner and we’ve been together for 2 years. I looked in his emails and his ex has been emailing long lengthy life story updates to him! They were unread and in spam. I didn’t read them as they were very long whiney messages and they looked boring but one started with “you’re not making this easy for me when you don’t reply” I mean wtf? How attempting to gain control is that? They broke up in 2014 and were only together 9 months they briefly met back up a year before we got together but things had changed and it was awkward apparently.
I told him next time she emails to let me know and I will reply. She knows what he’s doing as she mentioned he’d moved to a different city so she knows he’s with me. I would leave it but she’s relentless I mean she’s emailed 1/2 times a month for years. I just find it very disrespectful and she should think about how she would feel if she was in a relationship and his ex was doing this? What makes her think her needy, unstable ass is better than mine? Should I leave it or message her because she will never stop!

So I’ve been speaking to someone very on and off over maybe 2 years. Through a dating app then moved over to IG. We never met in person, he tried initiating but I pushed back. He then mentions that he’s moving out of state and I didn’t even reply, he continues to reply to my stories and photos.

He’s said before he wishes he met me before moving to WA. Today he sends me a message asking if I would like to fly to WA to meet him. He’d cover my hotel and visit and I pretty much stated the obvious that’s a crazy idea. And then he says that he would cover my flight if I wanted, I told him that he can’t expect me to feel comfy in flying across the country to meet someone I don’t know and then he said that we can continue talking, scratch the idea and he’ll visit me the next time he visits because he still has property here (if we are still talking by then).

He isn’t stalkerish but it’s kinda desperate agree?