Haha, I can't tell if this is a troll or not. But welcome to a guy not being that into you.
I'm guessing he is a bit older, attractive, and has plenty of options so he doesn't need to wait around for you.
I have had this happen. I dated a very attractive younger woman. She was very entitled, spoiled, and expected me to treat her like a princess because that's how all the other guys treated her, just cause she was hot. But she acted like an asshole, and tried to treat me like one of those pathetic guys chasing her around.
Well I found it annoying and unattractive. She wasn't that "hot" and I can get other hot women that don't act like that. So I told her I was no longer interested. Suddenly she was blowing up my phone, trying to take me out on a date. I started dating someone new, she really freaked out, tried to get me to break up with her. She was unstable. The more she tried, the more unattractive it became. She didn't like me, it was just about her ego.
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Why would you want to change yourself for someone that has not respected you to this point. Stop contacting him for a bit. If he has any interest in you it won't take long for him to reach out to you. Right now he knows he can treat you anyway he wants and you will give him what he wants.
Why make the effort when he clearly doesn't care.
Pour your attention to someone who actually reciprocates.
Know your worth.
Being hot doesn’t mean you don’t have the ability to get ghosted.
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Reading this made me think of two points. The first being when you're both chatting does he ever ask you a question and you only reply with a yes or no and make no effort? I've lost count of the amount of women I've chatted with and they make no effort whatsoever and I always ghost them.
The other is you say you keep texting him, if somebody keeps messaging me it puts me off immediately. For example I was chatting with a girl once late at night and I told her I was going to have to go to bed and I went off line. When I turned my computer on the next morning she'd sent me over 30 messages overnight asking me why I wasn't replying and her final message asked me if I'd died overnight. She was immediately blocked.
Looking to desperate can definitely put guys offSounds like u are trying to hard almost desperate. Let him feel like you’re not that interested and I bet he will change his ways.
Well for one thing, stop pushing so hard. So many women want to make themselves into men’s types, but that’s a really unhealthy life approach. You aren’t making yourself more enticing by trying to be enticing to him.
He sensed your lack of humility and moved on.
How many message you get from other good guys that are willing to hold your hands and not ghosting you and make you happy?
it is not your fault , his wife probably find out about this , that is why he disappeared
Welcome to our world, ladies.
Let him chase you
Nope. You can try to get a police record.
Don't worry about this loser.
You can't he is not pay attention to you.
Suck it up buttercup
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