I know there are reasons of reasons for a guy or a girl to ghost the other person. But I jsut wonder if this is a valid excuse for a guy to stop having interest to a lady or this is jsut an immature childish stupid behavior of this particular guy and not all guys are like him.
A man and a woman known each other and had met 5 years ago. They are not ina relationship or they are a couple, they are just casual friends period. They had gone out though in 4 dates in the past. the first 2 were meal dates and both had a good time and made out at the end of each respective date (no sex here even if the guy did want to but they did not)). The guy is are of the lady attraction to him and in some way the guy was also attracted until...
The other 2 dates were sexual dates but they had soemthing to eat first, like quick meal dates, and strike up conversations. The guy is the kind of guy who is more into the sexual stuff with ladies because he does not want to develop a relationship with a lady, he enjoys being single and stay that way. He is 46 years old already!!! The guy knowing the attraction this lady had for him, he thought the lady was going to be of the same thinking of him that she won't mind having sex when he wants to see her, not when she felt more comfortable. The lady was a bit more prudish even when she alreayd had sex with the guy twice becuse she was not used to have sex often and she lack of experience so for her, things needed to be taken a bit slower. in order for her to get used to and enjoy it more. The times this lady had sex with the guy she practically was new to all of this so it is natural she felt jumpy and uneasy but it seems the guy had more experience so he assum for her it was going ot be easier because she liked him very much so she could had felt less jumpy and nervous for that but that di dnot happen. She was just experience to have sex with someoen she felt attracted to so everything was new to her
A man and a woman known each other and had met 5 years ago. They are not ina relationship or they are a couple, they are just casual friends period. They had gone out though in 4 dates in the past. the first 2 were meal dates and both had a good time and made out at the end of each respective date (no sex here even if the guy did want to but they did not)). The guy is are of the lady attraction to him and in some way the guy was also attracted until...
The other 2 dates were sexual dates but they had soemthing to eat first, like quick meal dates, and strike up conversations. The guy is the kind of guy who is more into the sexual stuff with ladies because he does not want to develop a relationship with a lady, he enjoys being single and stay that way. He is 46 years old already!!! The guy knowing the attraction this lady had for him, he thought the lady was going to be of the same thinking of him that she won't mind having sex when he wants to see her, not when she felt more comfortable. The lady was a bit more prudish even when she alreayd had sex with the guy twice becuse she was not used to have sex often and she lack of experience so for her, things needed to be taken a bit slower. in order for her to get used to and enjoy it more. The times this lady had sex with the guy she practically was new to all of this so it is natural she felt jumpy and uneasy but it seems the guy had more experience so he assum for her it was going ot be easier because she liked him very much so she could had felt less jumpy and nervous for that but that di dnot happen. She was just experience to have sex with someoen she felt attracted to so everything was new to her
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and still she got jumpy and uneasy something the gy did not approve or like that much.
So the guy the last time he made contact with the lady out of the blue after ghosting her for several months was because he wanted to ahve sex so he told her if she could come to his house one day in the afternoon she said she coudl not go becaue she was not even at home when he reach him with his sudden text. A few weeks later once again he cotnacted her but even if he did not ask her to go to his place
So the guy the last time he made contact with the lady out of the blue after ghosting her for several months was because he wanted to ahve sex so he told her if she could come to his house one day in the afternoon she said she coudl not go becaue she was not even at home when he reach him with his sudden text. A few weeks later once again he cotnacted her but even if he did not ask her to go to his place
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he did mention he still feel having sex with her. and he told her: "Sometimes I feel like having sex with you but then you get all jumpy and it is a boredom" The lady replied 3 weeks later and told him She also like to be with him but all of this is new to her and she had to get used each time to enjoy it more". After that text from him, he ghosted her. isn't that childish? Is that an excuse to ghost a lady when they knew for 5 yrs! The lady never said no she just want things a bit slow to enjoy.
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