Why do men ghost woman before they meet?

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This has happened multiple times on dating sites.

[DaveJord]

Honestly yes, its not all that uncommon but as a general rule no. When I was online dating I was going on enough dates, that it started getting costly so I started scrutinizing who was worth spending money on. It really depends on if the guy is only looking to get laid or not... but if you are seriously looking for someone then yes you ghost them, they may look great but if the vibe is missing, or they don't answer the questions right you loss interest chasing after things you know will not work out in the long term.

[SCDivinitySoul]

The same way people end up hanging up someone on the phone when they are nervous to talk, the ghosting is much worse though it's both guys and girls, I got ghosted by my own girlfriend/exvout of no where's and it honestly fucked me up for awhile. tl most likely thou guys are just trying to collect nudes and disappear though.

[theclovergirl]

Yeah before even meeting some people just leave you dry, wondering what in the world happened! Sorry if that’s you. Everyone has a ghosting story by now right? This society is truly alarming. I personally believe people ghost when they really lost interest or never even had real good intentions in the first place. Probably red flags were waving everywhere but other party ignored them and they got ghosted. It’s when you show that you care, serious, that you want them, they run away

[DermalPunch]

He cast his net wode and released the one's he didn't want. That's all. Don't take it personal. And IRL will always beat online. Try that! Go outside and enjoy yourself by yourself. Men will approach you.

[SimpleGuy95]

I think one of the reasons is because men and women need a different amount of talk to feel secure and acknowledged.
There could be situations where a man feels like everything is said so he doesn't message her anymore while she feels like she's ghosted because he stops messaging.

[mayur1598]

Like what...
You meet on dating app and when time comes to meet he ghost you?
If so I think that person is cat fishing you...

[monkeynutts]

Sometimes people have insecurities, second thought, nerves, maybe they are good people, but they have anxieties, and ignoring others is an easy solution to dealing with these troubles.

[one1wild00]

It's not just the guys ghosting, I get ghosted by gals all the time or else hit on by scammers and escorts when i really want a gal who wants to be with me for me, not for money or "cards"

[Anonymous]

It is. Plus making excuses why u can't meet up or making plans for a fantasy future. hahaha

[Anonymous]

Did you know that women do the same? Why do you show interest in the beginning and then flake out?

[Anonymous]

Same reason women do I guess. Too cowardly to tell you they aren't interested. Or too selfish (ie don't think of you at all), or both.

[Intothevoid666]

They realized they didn’t actually find the girl attractive and were just desperate for a date. At least that what happened to me

[Slim57]

Are you kidding I've been ghosted by women after I've sent them a pic, anyway I don't know I've never ghosted anyone I planned to meet and people who ghost are immature

[Sam_25]

Aww babe be with the man who desperat for spend time with you. 😘

[IsoUser]

I never did but I prefer a girl who allows me to cum twice inside her throat.

[RandomGuy1030]

Because you turnt out to be unneeded to successfully masturbate

[Jltakk]

Seems more like a question I'd direct at women instead.

[Anonymous]

Same reason women ghost. I would bet that statistically women ghost far more often..

[Doom880]

No idea, only cowards ghost others

[Iron_Man]

Women ghost men as well

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Yup afraid it would become real

[VV3ZZY]

Fear of saying too much maybe. Lol

[Wise4myage]

They must have changed their minds?

[Anonymous]

Why do women flake out on dates?