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This may not be the best place to ask for this type of advice, but please help if you can. 3 YEARS AGO: my widowed mother was emotionally manipulated into marrying someone who she met through a deceitful “friend”. Let me explain; my mom’s best friend’s EX husband (who we’ll call CACTUS) contacted my mom about a potential “HUSBAND” (PRICK) for my mom. Her, being lonely, accepted PRICK’s number and they started chatting. I didn’t think anything of it since she tried to find romance countless times in the past :/ as you continue reading about her situation, keep in mind that PRICK lives on the east coast and we live on the west coast! Literally 2 weeks after they found out about each other’s EXISTENCE, CACTUS and PRICK flew out to the west coast so that PRICK and my mom could meet. When my mom laid eyes on him, there was no denying that she fell in love. ESPECIALLY when he proposed to her! He revealed that he only married her so that he would get his green card (not for love or to grow old together) and FORCED her sign a contract that basically criminalizes her too (it says that she’s aware of the fact that it’s a false marriage, so if she reports him, she’d get jail time as well and he’d get deported back to Uzbekistan). He also has a lawyer on the east coast who’s in on the fact that they have a false marriage and she gives him “advice on how to make their marriage look real” (like moving in together~which only lasted for a year, and was miserable). We’re sick of all his games and the lies we’ve had to deal with! He’s threatening her life and our family if she divorces/leaves him! It’s been three years and he’s done nothing but treat her like filth and my sister and I have helplessly witnessed it all happen. Any time I try to stand up for my mom, he says my opinion doesn’t matter since I’m only 17. How, if possible, can my mom SAFELY leave him? He deceived us KIDS into thinking we’d have a dad who actually cared about us, and that emotionally hurt us.

So I heard some pretty amazing news. Scientists are making a new pill that helps fight against loneliness. Since I regularly suffer from loneliness and I never have anyone to talk to I am looking forward to getting this new pill. I have " happy" pills but they don"t really work. Lol

like i seriously feel like I'm cursed with being alone, loveless and friendless forever. Everyone says loneliness is temporary but this has been my whole life. I can't even look at romantic movies without feeling sick. I used to feel so happy looking at couples being happy but now it just makes me feel terrible because i know i will never get to expernice what its like to hold hands, kiss someone or feel what its like to have friends ever...

So a blast from the past I decided to be (re) friend him. My issue before was his insecurity and my issue now is his insecurity once again. Im starting to think he's retarded. I addressed him on being insecure and too much. he had the nerve to say ,"this is too much". I told him,"join the fucking club , its you." His response was "sheesh".. well get your fucking shit together dude five more years until you're forty and you're still quarreling. Sick of his issues and whimpy behavior.