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A close guy friend and I have more than friendly feelings for each other, and even do a lot of things people in relationships do. When we first met and dated, he liked me but I didn't feel that way for him. After I while, we kind of flip flopped. I gradually grew feelings for him while he was convincing himself nothing more than friendship would ever happen. I finally got the guts to tell him how I feel. He is confused (I don't know what about since he knows he cares for me too) and doesn't know if he wants a relationship yet and said he might even be leaving sometime this year to move to a new job.

We're both really struggling with the situation and are both sad about things, and I don't know the best way to handle it. Doing all the physical and other stuff we were doing makes me cry sometimes because it's like a tease to me, but not seeing him at all would probably kill me too. Trying to see him but cut out the physical stuff is also hard because the temptation and feelings will always be there.

Can anyone who's been in a similar situation give some advice?