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I’m a guy that’s supposedly told that he has it all. Good looks, very tall, wealthy with good charisma.

It’s crazy how it’s a walk in the park for girls to meet men and even to get sex. I don’t look for this.

But how come women are worshipped and men are kind of forgotten? Anyone know?

I’m thinking to completely erase the idea of dating/marriage/kids on the basis that I feel
I've had a lot of bad experiences. Despite going out of my way for people.

A few years ago I was in between jobs and had a lot of free time. I talked a lot to a girl on Tumblr until she decided to start working on a cam site. I followed her there, but after she left the site I stayed. I ended up meeting another girl who was working on the site to pay for college. We decided to end the sexual component quickly as it was making things awkward. A year passed and we became very close. We talked for hours almost every day on the site, in messages, and in Skype calls. She left the cam site just before graduation and I left with her. She trusted me enough to eventually give me all of her personal info. It's now been 3.5 years and we are still Skyping 2-3 time per week and talking a lot in texts. We know everything about each other. She is basically the girl of my dreams. She's more beautiful than any girl iv'e ever met, smart, funny, courageous, I can go on and on. The problem is, she has over 50 recorded sex videos online. Her name was exposed by a guy that harassed her in the past. If you search her full name, you can find everything. I know most of these videos will never disappear, and it's already been found by many of her friends, sister, and mother. I come from a very conservative family and they would never accept her past. As the years pass, more and more videos are posted. Every new video kills me a little more inside. I worry how this would impact our future. We don't live in the same country, so a real relationship will require complete investment. When i'm in doubt, we see each other in Skype and all the doubts disappear. She makes me more happy than anyone else ever has, and she understands me like nobody ever has. I'm not really thinking of ending things with her, I'm just curious what others think. Any input, experiences, or advice would be helpful. Thanks.

So my question is:
Would you date someone who previously worked on a cam site, if they were basically the girl/guy of your dreams?

I keep thinking about this. Are e-thots and whores bad, lazy entitled, pieces of sh*t for human beings because they exploit losers and simps for money and take advantage of them like a typical drug dealer? Or are they just taking advantage of a broken system CAUSED by losers and simps?

Say tomorrow you woke up in the body of a 5'10" super-attractive 9 (or 9.5) out of 10 woman. Easily the hottest woman you've seen in your life, only you're looking at your new self in a mirror.

This question is for the fellas: Would you take advantage of this system if you had the same physical resources as these women? Or would you keep your dignity and respect, regardless of what assets you had to exploit? I'm curious.

- If yes, can you really blame or talk down to e-thots and whores online, being you'd do the same thing?

- If no, what is it inside you that keeps you from using shortcuts in life, taking the easy way out, and not selling your ass (and dignity) for cheap cash?

I think you guys already know I wouldn't do it. Easy money today doesn't erase a lifetime of a tarnished and ruined public reputation that'll haunt you long after gravity catches up with your body.

Unwanted pregnancies, abortions, STD's, infidelity, broken marriages, divorces... There's lots of reasons why sex work is frowned upon in society (not even necessarily what I believe; just valid reasons).

I'm not even saying "all sex work is bad." I'm just saying, you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you're fine exchanging your respect from people in exchange for cash, then you do you. But you can't be a whore or worse, a lazy, half-assed, e-whore on OnlyFans and still expect people to respect you or take you seriously. This is the life you chose in exchange for a quick buck, while everyone else wasn't taking the easy way through life and doing sh*t their kids could actually be proud of them for, someday.