Personal Views #1 Respect

Personal Views #1 Respect


PEOPLE I DON'T RESPECT PERSONALLY :

Some of you might wonder why I'm making this take. Am I picking a fight? No, not exactly.

I'm just clarifying it on my end, some arguments so that when I state something along these lines, you'd have a better picture of what I really mean. Most conflicts are based on misunderstandings, so I'm clearing them up.

You're welcome.

1 gold digging is okay, sleeping for promotion is not

Gold digging is kinda symbiotic. You scratch my back and I'll scratch yours. Pff, you shouldn't be under the illusion that somebody your daughter's age can love you "unconditionally", for starters. That is, he gets a trophy wife and she gets the luxury. Its a win-win.

However, one must always work hard to get ahead. Sleeping with your sleazy boss when you should be reporting harassment is not cool. There are other people more than capable of being promoted. It means you have no self esteem, not to mention you're insulting the true hard workers. Please stop.

2 unprotected sex is stupid but you should abort it if you aren't ready

Whether abortion is murder or not, by birthing your mistake you're destroying your partner's, yours and the child's life. It's better to try again when you're fully prepared. Emotionally, mentally and financially.

Decision to abort is more painful than actual child delivery. I can still respect it. It means you're thinking of future, your relationship and best of all, yourself.

I'd like to add unprotected sex is very stupid if parenthood isn't in your agenda. What's more stupid is realizing your fault after months. The muffin is already half baked, honey. Indeed your doctors refused to abort.

With that being said, I love kids. Gonna become a teacher if possible.

3 no sleeping standards whatsoever

How desperate are you?

If there are certain people you won't date, same goes for sex... Casual or not.

Nobody wants to bed someone who'd just do it with anyone.

You don't hafta be married or in love to be ravished but I sure as hell would judge if you don't know shit about your partner.

Considering sex recreational is fine — but don't be a rabbit. Huge turn off (unless you're my lover, then I shall try to get it on whenever you please).

4 liars!

People who'd say anything to get you in the bed with them... Despicable. The mindless flirting, the escalating touch, the emotional enslavement (Derek Rake books)...

That's crappy on so many levels.

If you can't commit, tell your partner you aren't exclusively dating them.

If you want sex, there's no need to tell them you love them. Cuz you don't! Tell them the truth and see if they're still horny, bingo. Seriously, if you like emotional sex that awfully, date.

For ex. I'd never get involved with a conservative. There's nothing wrong with them, I'd just hate fighting all the time over difference in attitude and approach. I won't change it cuz I saw hot conservative walking by — and he or she is interested in me. I won't go against me. I've that much self control.

Thank you!

Ps. Feel free to clear any doubts. :)

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