Search Results: what hurts the most after a break up

Ok so, I know this guy from Canada, i met him online we dated for about 2 months (online) he started harassing me making me really depressed saying all this shit putting me down, so i broke up with him and told my bestfriend that I've known for 8 years since 3rd grade about him and she started talking to him. I told her not to because of how much shit he has caused in my life. she agreed she wouldn't speak to him any further. so 3 months later.. she tells me they are meeting in real life... and I was completely shocked. I freaked out because she promised me she wouldn't talk to him.. so i took a break from talking to her. 2 days after I find out they are dating. Then he texts me again taunting me screaming at me telling me how I'm a fuck up in life and should die. I tell my bestfriend about what he said and she stood up for him. I ignored her for a week. and when i came back to her she turned it around on me and acted like i hurt her. then she tells me that she has to text him more because he's more important and needs a break from me because "I hurt her". This completely broke me. they barely know each other and he really hurt me. (btw she is 15 and he is 18) I am severely depressed. She was the ONLY friend i had. and i love her so much we did everything together, hung out everyday. He came to visit and they are posting all these pictures of them kissing and shit. Im alone now. And she doesn't even care. The thing that hurts the most is she isn't even acting like she misses me. I've done so much for her. I've put up with all her shit, and she just walks away. I'm sorry this is long, but am I crazy for being so upset about them being together? ;(

Over the summer me and one of my close guy friends/coworkers dating for three months. He dumped me out of no where the week we started college then a month later had another girl. He was a lot more public with their relationship then with ours. When we dated he never tried to take a pic with me or acknowledge the fact that we were a couple. Which is one of the reasons I feel like if was just a fling and I didn't know it until after he dumped me. He broke up with the girl about two months ago and since then has been trying to go back to how things were with us before we started dating, cause after he dumped me he strung me along for a bit then started being jerkish. I gave up on trying to save our friendship when I found out he had a new girl one he actually called his girlfriend. My motto is to get revenge by killing them with kindness, so I've have been nothing but nice to him this entire time. At the same time I kept my distance by not texting him or having conversation with him alone. We have reestablish our friendship, dispite that fact that I don't trust him anymore cause he hurt me so bad. About a month ago he asked one of our friends if I was still dating "that guy" and she said he acted disappointed when she replied yes. (We recently broke up) We text now every so offend most of the time he texts me first. Last week was his bday so I got him a small gift that he would love and he hugged me for the first time ever. When we dating I was always the one that hugged him and he would hug me back out of response. While were at work we'll sometimes catch each others eyes and he'll smile at me and he always makes sure you said goodbye to me before we leave work which he never did before. Like he says bye and use one of my nicknames instead of bye guys or see you later. Is he just wanting to be best friends again or does he want me back? I never lost my feelings for him even when I hated him. I don't understand why, but I just can't get over him. It's stup

I broke up with my ex and I don't know how he feels about it. We broke up because he was getting stressed and taking out on me, meanwhile he was doing drugs and I didn't know about that. I just couldn't take it anymore, I loved him so much and gave him my all and got nothing in return. He always told me that I was a good person, beautiful, smart, confident, independent, kind, sweet, funny, considerate, and he couldn't believe someone like me was with someone like him. He always said he cared about me but he never showed it. I wasn't aware of what he was going through because he refused to talk about it or even communicate with me at all. Just one day after checking on him because i hadn't heard from him in a week he blew up at me then i was aware what was happening with him. The thing that hurt the most was when he called me a nagging bitch 2 times and he said he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. I thought he was hurt but he said i was better off thinking he was dead. So i ended it. I loved him and cared about him so deeply and he broke my heart. He wanted to talk that night but i blocked him. His final message said, "I'm sorry, i wish i could have shown you how much i cared about you and I'm not mad at you just wish I could have showed you more. I hope you find someone who appreciates you like you did with me. I'm sorry i hurt you. Okay bye." Then he put 10 hearts to symbolize how many months we were together.
How would you feel if lost someone like that? Or how do you think he feels?