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Are unattractive assholes not appreciated compared to good looking ones?

I'm cold, distant & literally don't care about anyone but myself &I avoid talking to people & I'm not looked in awe by others probably because I'm not attractive One kid at school is basically like me personality...
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To those around 25 or older?

Do you also feel like you have no clue of what you want from life? That you haven't reached much? Compared to others you are so far behind? You dont know what you like? You dont know what fits you? Scared of...
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Why do guys prefer short girls?

I used to not care about how I look or if I even ended up with someone or not, but someone pointed out to me that shorter girls are more feminine and that guys prefer short girls and that really killed my self esteem. I...
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Did she like me back? Please help! During first year at college, this beatiful girl... ?

... started looking at me quite a few times during class (I even caught her once and she quickly turned back, only to caught her again just a few seconds later). I wouldn´t call her a shy girl, but she was far from...
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A guy spent 4 hours talking to me when he had a mid term to study for the day before valentines day. Advice?

He asked me what I do on the weekends so I think he might have been interested in spending his weekends with me. He gave me all the attention you would give your girlfriend but didn't tell me he likes me or try to...
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Minimum height a guy needs to be at?

So I myself am pretty freaking short (1,72m / 5'8), especially compared to other guys in my country. I hear a lot of girls on the internet say that being tall is necessary for a guy to be relevant when trying to hook up,...
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So I myself am pretty freaking short (1,72m / 5'8), especially compared to other guys in my country. I hear a lot of girls on the internet say that being tall is necessary for a guy to Show More
Height doesn't matter
As long as he is not shorter than I am
A minimum height (put height in comments please :) )
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Is there someone out there for all of us?

I have never been in a romantic relationship. Recently though, I've been trying to fix that. The problem is that I'm picky and the clichéd "everyone i like doesn't like me the same way". So many people assume I've had...
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I have never been in a romantic relationship. Recently though, I've been trying to fix that. The problem is that I'm picky and the clichéd "everyone i like doesn't like me the same Show More
I believe there is
I doubt there is.
I'm unsure
I have no opinion
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I'm struggling to like the person in the mirror?

Girls, have you ever felt this way? I have a good job, loving boyfriend who is very supportive but it doesn't help me to feel good about myself. I am curvy with long dark hair and dark eyes, caramel skin, height around...
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Honestly, how to handle feeling inadequate/insecure in college?

i'm currently a student at a community college. i have a 3.86 GPA in computer engineering, have tutored at my college in math/science for the past year, have a lot of volunteer experience, just turned 20, etc. in short, i...
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Is it ok to appreciate that other women are attractive/more attractive than you?

No homo. Its just, often we criticise each other, or make jealous remarks. But sometimes I find myself thinking 'I wish I could be more attractive' and comparing myself to other girls... not in a bad way though....
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No homo. Its just, often we criticise each other, or make jealous remarks. But sometimes I find myself thinking 'I wish I could be more attractive' and comparing myself to other Show More
This makes you most likely a lesbian
It's natural to appreciate beauty in other women, whether it's your sister or a female role model
This is common, a lot of us compare ourselves to the same gender
This is abnormal
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Sitting next to a 'lonely' guy in class?

Heya, For the past half year there has been this guy in my class who is (from my point of view) rather lonely. If he is in class he usually sits by himself. On rare occassions he does attempt to hang out with other...
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Do you actually get more attractive in your 20's (plz read details)?

many people say your appearance peaks in your 20's. is that true? i hate my appearance compared to other girls in my school. like, i was an average looking kid, but then when age 10 came around, i turned into an ugly...
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I think my husband still has strong feelings for his ex-girlfriend and I'm hurt. What should I do?

Me and my husband have only been married two months and have been with each other five months all together. I am starting to have some doubts about our relationship mainly because I feel that he is not over his past...
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What is my problem? What do I attract these people and how can I attract someone better?

Some days I feel completely fine and on top of the world and then in that same day feel completely miserable like the world is crashing on me and I'm drowning and can't find any hope. I pray and it feels like my prayers...
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When Fun Becomes a Chore: My Story

Have you ever felt that something you love to do, be it your hobby, passion, or even a job, starts to lose its appeal and actually stops being fun? I'd like to share my recent experience about how something I loved to do...
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For Singles, How to Cope Now That the Wondrous Valentines Day is Coming...

As well known as it may be that V.D. is an overrated commercialized holiday, there comes a wondering of what the fuck singles can do on this shitty day where couples already obsessive about their lovey-dovey BS have even...
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How Hard It Is To Be An Unattractive Woman

Hello everyone, I'm going to talk about my struggles being unattractive, and yes even though I do have a resting bitch face, that's not the unattrativeness I'm talking about. I'm not just bland, I am what you would call...
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How to get over a guy who chose someone else?

I was seeing a guy who started out great in the beginning. However, he began to act hot and cold and just being really inconsistent. I realize now he was just leading me on. He ended things with my by ghosting. He wanted...
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Having issues watching television with my husband with attractive women and nudity?

I know it’s absolutely ridiculous and irrational, but for some reason I am having an extremely hard time watching tv shows with my husband with beautiful women and nudity. I️ find myself comparing too much and in turn...
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Idea for a girl I like for Valentine's Day?

So there's this girl who attends the same program as I do. She's nice, I think she's cute, and I like her. She's been coming to the program for a few months, but I didn't talk to her until December 22nd cuz I was very...
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