Search Results: get ready for a date

Like a movie but not at the same time?

So a long ass time ago I had this huge crush on this guy. It started I swear in like 5th grade and he was in 6th. All the way through middle school and high school and recently. I have a boyfriend but he treats me like...

Anonymous

(18-24)

If a guy is out of a serious relationship how soon is too soon to date him?

I like and went out with a guy who got out of a serious relationship 2 months ago. It was pretty innocent but I want a real relationship and I know he is the relationship type but I’m worried emotionally he may not be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

The Horror of Ghosting

Yes, this is a common thing. Yes, it's already been written about. But I want to give my thoughts on it. I’ve been talking with some people here about ghosting and seen some questions about it, so I decided to do my own...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Do you think my female coworker is into me? How should I proceed if so?

I’m hoping you may be able to assist me here. I have a coworker that recently started at my job... basically, she’s 23, Dominican, absolutely adorable... like 4’11”, 80 lbs etc. I’m 20, 6’ tall, slim-average, handsome,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dang! I'm getting more nervous as my first lunch date comes close?

Yeah... As each day passes I'm getting more and more nervous as the day of my date comes closer! I got lots lots on my mind you'll won't believed! I mean anything can happen!! she definitely has the looks!! Im overwhelmed...

scott04sa22

Guru Age: 40

I haven’t had a date in four years and is it normal to lose hope?

I had my first date/kiss when I was 21 years old and that only lasted two weeks. Then 8 months later I lost my virginity to my second boyfriend and he dumped me shortly after. For a year I didn’t want to date because I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

No intimacy making out after 2 months I can respect it but should I be concerned?

Me 23F dating 24M 2mos I am 5'4" he's 6'2". We enjoy many of the same things and laugh all the time. His first serious relationship - my second. 1st date hand holding right away and hug goodnight, add kiss I don't know...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you’ve date girl that has low self esteem and depression. I really like this girl I just wonder if we’re gone be compatible together?

About 2 months ago I meet this great girl we hit off too a good start. It’s seem we got along with each other and I could tell we had a lot in common. So about week ago I had asked her out. This would been date #4 she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy wants open communication and friendship after Situationship ended, Why?

I only dated this person for a month, we would go out on dates, talk about future plans and we both had mad chemistry. That's the problem it turned into a situationship. He has a kid, and I wasn't sure I was ready to dive...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, I need male perspective here PLEASE?

Me and this guy have so much fun together when we're together. We go on dates, we have phenomenal sex and he treats me so well... when we're together. He told me on his own that he's sorry that he hasn't been emotionally...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys dissapear before the first date for no reason?

Please help me solve the great mystery! As I said earlier, this is a very common scenario that has happened to me at least a thousand times when I was still dating in my twenties. Why do guys do that? Could it be that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

How was I not manly enough for her?

I dated this girl - Christina - a year ago. I was excited because she was my crush who asked me out. Christina is a very shy/nerdy person. She was especially shy with us progressing as a couple: having our first kiss,...

Blerdsmith19

Xper 5 Age: 24

The talking stage is so confusing. Are these red flags? what do y’all think?

So me and this boy have been talking for a couple of months and I don’t know where it’s going. We text everyday and fall asleep on the phone almost every night and I started getting comfortable with him. We’ve linked up a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Trigger warning Would you date a girl with a self-harm scar on her arm?

This is a very personal and emotional post for me so please don’t be disrespectful. When I was 16-18 I struggled with depression and self-harm due to verbal and psychological abuse I was receiving from a family...

Anonymous

(25-29)

This is a very personal and emotional post for me so please don’t be disrespectful. When I was 16-18 I struggled with depression and self-harm due to verbal and psychological

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I'm almost 22, still a virgin, and never been on a date, is that really bad?

People often think of me as a loser because of this, which honestly pisses me off at times. The reason I don't date is that I have too many flaws. I still live with my parents, I'm not in my desired career yet, I'm...

Guy0nGaG

Xper 5 Age: 27

People often think of me as a loser because of this, which honestly pisses me off at times. The reason I don't date is that I have too many flaws. I still live with my parents,

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My date invited me over on our 3rd hookup but fell asleep?

Met this girl on tinder and our first two dates went pretty good so she asked me to come over to her place on our 3rd one. I did so, with some expectations. She cooked a meal, served whine, there were candles etc etc and...

elmosdream

Xper 3 Age: 37

My girlfriend often seems scared to be vulnerable around me. How do I confront her about this without making her feel attacked?

She was cheated on by her ex-boyfriend. Also, she experienced emotional/physical abuse in a previous relationship. She hasn’t told me any of this information this yet; I found out from her friend. At the beginning, she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

An open letter to my boyfriend!

When I first saw you 5 years ago, I never thought you would mean to me what you do now. Then you were just another cute little shy guy who was awkward around me, not knowing you had a huge crush on me then. I got a bit...

certifiedalphafemale

Xper 6 Age: 28

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