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Brittany: She slid in my Instagram DMs. I've never had this happen before. She follows a friend of mine, saw my profile, and thought I was sexy. I thought she was spam or a fake profile at first, until I saw her live selfies. She's really beautiful and it's almost too good to be true. I made a list of 7 qualities that I wanted in a woman about four years ago and she meets 6 of those 7. And these aren't just physical features, but they are mental and spiritual too. She's a few states away from me and I won't be in her area for another 2 months. I'm afraid this will end up badly if we stop talking. She's the most risky one, but is closest to my dream woman. Should I pick her?

Alicia: I've known Alicia for 5 years. I used to like her a lot, but she didn't reciprocate the feelings. Her work has led her to travel to different places over the past 3 years, so I haven't seen her very much. However, over the past 3 weeks, I've been running into her quite a bit. At the gym, at the library, downtown, and at the mall. It's almost like she's stalking me. She's been really nice to me whenever we've met up and has been super-flirty over text. I think she might actually want me now. Should I pursue her? She's actually a shorter, less spiritual version of Brittany.

Kim: She's new to my company and very shy. When we first started talking, she told me she was mixed and told me to guess her ethnicities. I guessed correctly on the first try and she was really impressed. After that we started talking about different cultures and having really nerdy conversations. It turns out that we have a lot of the same interests. Recently, our company has been restructuring and she's now a member of two different work groups. Sometimes, she sits in the group next to mines and other times she's further away. When she is near me, we do talk quite a bit. She often tells me how she listens to my group's conversations to see if she likes it and wants to switch. She's 3 years younger. Is she the one?

Obviously those aren't the real Trisha and Nicole, but they have similar facial features and hair textures to those women.

Trisha and I have had our ups and downs, but she's promised me that she'll never burn the bridge with me. Trisha was there for me when my aunt died, she's given me career advice, and she makes me feel good about my accomplishments. I really like her. It's gotten really hard for me to be just friends with Trisha, because I want more. She is a good friend, but I notice that she's not real touchy with me. Maybe it's because she's a real shy and reserved person. Over the 5 years I've known her, she's only hugged me once and shook my hand twice. I find that weird because when she Snapchats or texts me, she's always very flirtatious and asking for my opinion on her looks. Maybe she is just a big flirt and leading me on. But I could be wrong about this. Should I pursue Trisha?

Nicole is my other good female friend. She's down to earth, but can be aloof and elusive at times. She's practical in the sense that she doesn't try to hide things. If she has to use the bathroom, she'll be open about it. If she doesn't like something you did, she'll get in your face and assert her opinion. If there's something bad mentioned in the news, she'll be the first one to pull up an article from an unbiased resource and share the facts. But, she also has this tendency to be aloof too. She used to date my friend I met at the gym. When he got a new car, she said it's just a car and didn't give him the compliment that he was seeking. When it was my birthday, she nearly forgot and said that it's just another year. Sometimes, I catch her listening to music and I call out to her or wave at her and she won't even look my way. Nicole is very touchy. She gives me a tight hug every time she sees me. She's kissed my neck before. And we've even shared a blanket at her apartment while we were watching TV. Should I pursue Nicole?