Search Results: relationship red flags

This guy I’m seeing says his concern when he’s dating is that the girl expect proposal too fast and start acting as if she’s already his fiancé?

We have been talking for 4 months now and we have this thing that we ask 2 deep questions everyday. To get to know each other better. And I asked what might be some of his concerns about this relationship. And he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A guy I was interested in left a girl for another girl before. Is that a red flag for me?

My ex left me for another girl. When I think of people doing something like that it bothers me. I can’t shake the feeling of being uncomfortable. So I was out with a guy who seemed cool. I liked him a little bit. Then he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend is friends with his brothers girlfriend who has always been disrespectful of me, is this a red flag?

we’ve been together for over a year. She has never approved of our relationship even though she's never taken the chance to get to know me. I've tried several times to be civil and even friendly with her but it never...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have I chased him away?

The other night I mentioned to my boyfriend of four years that I’m basically an alcoholic. Since the pandemic I have been drinking way too much and it runs in my family. He responded with that gif of a little girl waving...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Single with kids?

I have two teenagers. How does a guy feel about getting a relationship with teenagers, and never had a girlfriend who had children before at 35. Is it wise for me to count it as a red flag?

Newperson56789

Xper 3 Age: 35

The talking stage is so confusing. Are these red flags? what do y’all think?

So me and this boy have been talking for a couple of months and I don’t know where it’s going. We text everyday and fall asleep on the phone almost every night and I started getting comfortable with him. We’ve linked up a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ladies, is this a red flag to you?

I went out on my first date since my engagement ended and although I was friends with the girl already, she asked what happened. We dated on and off for 4 years and we're engaged but she ended things because of our...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I went out on my first date since my engagement ended and although I was friends with the girl already, she asked what happened. We dated on and off for 4 years and we're engaged but

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Why do cheaters have the audacity to get mad when they're getting cheated on?

Preferably female cheaters. We were almost getting into a relationship until this. I tell her to get her ex out of her dms and she lied about blocking him on everything (major red flag #1). She said she was over her...

Anonymous

(18-24)

When should you meet up with someone who you met on a dating site/app?

I matched with this guy on a dating app and he asked for my number so that he can get to know me better, and we’ve been texting ever since (that was 3 weeks ago). We have some things in common, we both communicate well,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, I’m a 25-year-old woman that lives at home, should I avoid dating?

A guy recently turned me down because I live at home. He texted me and explained that it was a red flag for him and that it seems immature for me to be living with family at my age. I work a part-time job and attend...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Considering Breaking Up With My Boyfriend, What Should I Do?

I've been with this guy for almost 3 years now. I love him but I'm just have second thoughts about it all. He will do everything for me but he is also very... controlling, manipulative, and so on. He's tried to make...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Someone in their 30s hasn't had a "serious" relationship yet. Red flag or not?

Apope16

Influencer Age: 39

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How to tell if a guy wants a relationship and not just a hookup?

Hi all I was wondering if there are any signs or red flags to look out for when it comes to pursuing a man how Do I know if he’s only interested in hooking up? Or if he’s interested in a relationship?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is not having a relationship in 4-5 years a red flag?

I haven't had a girlfriend since 2016. I took some time off to casually date. I started my MBA in 2018, and should graduate early 2022, as I am doing this part-time. Is the length that I have not been in a relationship a...

JimCarrey72

Xper 4 Age: 35

Could you date a guy who was literally everyone's shoulder to cry on?

I just recently started dating a guy. he's a sweet guy but takes on the problems of everyone. He forever has to help a female friend who is having relationship problems. Am I being too jealous here? Or does this raise red...

Anonymous

(36-45)

5 Signs You Must Definitely Part Away From Her

Sometimes you can't expect some people to change into anything good. While some people change into better people after they get into a relationship, some just cannot change themselves. These are some signs of such...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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How can I fall out of love with my boyfriend?

I’m in a relationship and it’s not making me happy whatsoever it’s so one sided I feel like it’s only me putting in the effort it’s only ever me asking to meet and call and every time I tell myself to stop messaging I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why does he get defensive if I ask about his female friends?

For example, I asked him today what the relationship he had with this one girl flirting under his photo. I know he has female friends, and it was before we were dating but I was just wondering if he flirts with her still....

Billie_

Explorer Age: 27