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I asked this before and most of you thought he should keep the baby.

He found out I was moving to my grandma's in Shreveport and then now he has a lawyer (one of the best in the city) and is already digging up dirt on me to bring to court. How do I fight this?
I think he found out through a mutual friend that I was trying to move because I never told him. He thinks with me moving that I'm trying to take his son away, so he see's it as me trying to keep him out of son's life or make it harder to see him. But I wasn't doing that I only wanted to move in with my grandma to get some money saved to take care of my son before he's born and be with family.

I can't stand him, he ruined everything and he's so annoying and entitled. I wish he was like most men and was a deadbeat who would just leave me and my baby alone to fend for ourselves. There's no way I can win this case going by what you all are saying because he has all the money and education and I have nothing really. But I can't just give up and let him take my baby away from me. I'll never see my son, he's vindictive that way he'll never let me see him. I'm scared and stressed and I cry all the time now because I know there's a good chance that my son will be taken away from me and everybody is on his side and I have no one really. All I have is my grandma but there's nothing that she can do.

I'm really scared and stressed and i don't know what to do. This baby is all I have and I love it more than anything and I can't lose it. Please someone I need help or advice because I don't know what to do. I feel like running away but that might make things worse with the courts :( Please someone help me. I tried even talking to a lawyer and they basically said I was screwed, but I could try and fight it by claiming child support, but if I did that there's a chance he would win regardless because I don't have a job.

Please someone give me some advice so I can keep my baby. I can't lose him, my son is all I have. Should I stay and fight this and risk losing my son or just run away and hope the father doesn't find me?

I think I was at a beach, but the ground was grassy and a line of trees blocked me from the sand and a little of the view. I was lying on a chair when I remembered I had to be somewhere. I sat up and saw a sponge you use to wash your dishes with. it was covered in soap, so I decided to just wash off right there. A man suddenly appeared in front of me as I scrubbed my arms and moved to my legs. "I want to have a baby with you" he said and I ignored him, but got a little freaked. "Can we have a baby?" He asked. I replied with a simple 'no' and continued to scrub my thighs then moved to my stomach. "Please? I want you to have a baby!" I ignored him again but he reached for me. I pulled away and he started walking closer so I started running down a sidewalk to a building about twenty yards away. I could here him behind me.

I ran into the building to get away from the man. It was strange like a grocery store with shelves fifty feet high and one hundred feet long. The store was dim as people shopped around. I saw a group of guys standing around and the man from earlier talking to them. The boys suddenly turned to me and smirked. I took a step back and they ran towards me. I turned on my heel and ran quickly in the other direction. I could hear them running after me, but I didn't want to turn and see. I found someone and began talking to them. The boys circled around me, but didn't approach because of the person I was with. They didn't move until the girl left me. They started walking towards me to intimidate me (it worked! I was terrified) and I began to run again. I could hear them chasing me and getting closer. I could sense their thrill in chasing me which made me even more scared. I felt a tug on my arm as one of them wrapped their hand around my wrist. The jerk backwards woke me up.

Weird right? What do you think was going on?

What do you think about the dream in general?

I know that girls usually hide the fact that they're the jealous type until the relationship is secured because they're scared of scaring the guy away. I know plenty of girls who have unleashed a jealous wrath after the relationship has become serious. I've been with my boyfriend for roughly 2 months and he hasn't really shown any signs of jealousy. We've discussed my male friends and how 90% of them have admitted to having feelings for me (And I'm still good friends with them). And he didn't really seem jealous at all. The only time he said anything was when I told him one of my friends had texted me saying "what's up cutie?" (Knowing I have a boyfriend). He knows this guy and all he said was "wow that's not cool of him. He needs to get his own girlfriend." But a few days later I got together for lunch briefly with that same guy friend and when I told my boyfriend I was with him all he said was "oh cool tell him I said what's up."

He's a really nice guy so there's a good chance that he's just not easily jealous but I am kind of worried that he is secretly bothered by it. I don't want to push him away, and I don't know the boundaries of what makes him uncomfortable. I am the jealous type but I'm the silent type, so I silently get annoyed but never say anything, so as far as he knows I'm not the jealous type at all.