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We are in a long distance relationship. He is 35, I am 23. It would have been a year together now... if he had not broken up with me in July and dated another girl. He decided he wanted me back almost immediately but I was really hurt and I kept saying no and I was dating other guys.

In September I finally agreed to meet but only if he would visit me and he did and OMG I was so happy... and the way he hugged me and kissed me 😍😍😍 He said he is sorry he hurt me, he didn't know I cared, as I never said "I love you" + I said I don't belong there, when he was just about to ask me to move in with him.

He is very caring now, like he used to be when we first started dating. He bought me a million gifts.

Among others - a Pandora bracelet for my birthday! I remember when we passed next to a Pandora store once and he said "There is always a line of idiots waiting here to buy something for their girlfriend". 👽😂😂

He even gave me his credit card, but I didn't want to use it. He then sent me money on my account.

He started commenting on my insta pics. When we were out he was all the time telling me not to look at other men, and "you are only mine".

I told him I wanna be careful about sex cause I'm ovulating and he said "Why? I hope we have twins". I said I don't wanna be a single mom. He said "Do you think so low of me? I will prove you that you can trust me".

He framed our photos in his living room 👽 and he made me a surprise party with my friends but I think it was only an excuse to meet them cause I never let him.

And he said now I have to visit him. I said I don't know if I can. He said "Why not?, it's not like I'm asking you to plan for the next 5 years, or to have a baby now. But we need to decide who moves where". I said "But I have my job here" and he said "Screw it, you don't need it. Maybe you'll find one you like here. Not for the money but just to have something to do".

I met him 2 years ago. I was 21. He was 31. At first we were just chatting and talking on the phone. He was funny, cute, and charming. He was asking me out for like 2 months until finally I said yes. We went to many cute dates, he was taking me on his business trips and buying me romantic gifts.
One night we ended up kissing and having sex at my place. It was so good. After that we went to dinner and I said "You are an amazing guy, I'm surprised you're not married by now" and he went silent for a moment and then said "Actually, I am married". I couldn't believe it. But I stayed calm. I just asked him why didn't you tell me before, why do you ask others out? And he told me it was a mistake he married her. She doesn't love him. She is very much involved in her business which is in another country. So they don't spend much time together. They've been married for 3 years but they don't have kids. They hardly ever have sex because she doesn't want to. I felt a kind of sorry for him and I was thinking he deserved better. But let's face the truth: HE WAS A LIAR AND HE WAS DATING ME FOR MONTHS AND HAD SEX WITH ME BEFORE HE TOLD ME HE WAS MARRIED AND HE PROBABLY WOULD HAVE NEVER TOLD ME HADN'T I ASKED HIM! And he was cheating on his wife!

I was still chatting to him sometimes but I decided it's better not to see him, but after some time we met again. I tried to date others but I was in love with him. Until finally 1 year ago I met a guy who kicked him out of my mind and heart - my current boyfriend.

And my ex's wife found my shampoo at their apartment. He texted me telling me I was a bitch for leaving it there but the truth is he kicked my stuff out after a fight and didn't realize it was not hers. He is still texting me every few days even though it's been more than a year asking me to meet and saying I am the best girl and he misses me. Should I tell his wife?

Because...
1. She is 1.5 years younger than you. You are 18 and she is 17.
2. You don't want to mature her too quickly
3. You need to focus on your future career and she needs to focus on school
4. She's a nice girl and a good person and you don't want to hurt her (and you tell her she didn't do anything wrong and there's no reason to be upset)
5. You are potentially moving away from her and you don't feel it would be fair for her for you to date her and move suddenly
6. You still wanna be her friend and hang out with her
by the way these are all real things he said to me, and I don't know how to be his friend after everything that we've talked about and after he was my first kiss.