Search Results: relationship red flags

Dilemma: tried changing my dating pattern but I still only attract narcissistic abusers. Should I finally accept and settle?

I grew up with a narcissistic mother, from 22-26 i had the best relationships. Nice guys, at 25 i fell madly in love with someone I knew already. We remained very connected for the next 4/5 years but broke up after a year...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Why is it every time my dad cheats and abuse my mom. She calls me for help, then attacks me and push me away?

I don’t understand, is this normal marriage behavior? My parents have been having relationship problems, before I was born. Ever since they started dating. There were so many BIG RED FLAGS from my father since they...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it typical for a guy you’re talking to express how much they want to be physical with you (i. e. kiss, hug, etc) even though you haven’t met yet?

Backstory, I met the guy on a dating app and mentioned that I’m looking for a serious relationship. He seems nice, but he’ll mention how he wishes he could kiss me and cuddle with me randomly as we text. He even asked me...

aaa13

Xper 3 Age: 31

Are you "romantically desperate"?

Too eager to get in a relationship... You ignore red flags, misread your partner's language, force out your feelings, fall too hard

fonduegirl

Guru Age: 25

What does my boyfriend mean by "I am never going to let you go"?

I do love my boyfriend dearly, we haven't been together that long but it's something special. For context during sex I am the sub and he is the dom. The sub/dom stuff doesn't impact things outside of sex. He doesn't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to deal with an impatient guy?

A guy who I like is a bit impatient and can become angry quickly with situations around him. He is a great guy otherwise and has never lashed out on me before. But I don’t know if he may in the future. Is this a red...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do you think of people who keep in touch with their exes on a friendly basis?

Do you find a person who remains friends with an ex offputting? Is it a red flag? Is it a good sign? Do you suspect he/she is still attached to this ex? What do you think? I ask this because I have never parted a...

Bluemax

Master Age: 58

Is it a red flag that the guy im dating has had hookups w a bunch of girls before?

It's obvious he likes me but he told me about his past hookups. He fucked tons of random girls and I dont think i deserve a guy who messed around before I feel like he will cheat on me if we continue the relationship....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Just because you don’t feel a romantic connection right away with someone, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t give it a chance to develop

Today, with dating apps, there is so much pressure and a lack of patience when it comes to developing a connection with someone within days or even hours of even knowing that person even existed. If that connection...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Should I be worried about my boyfriends female friend?

My boyfriend has a female friend. I've met her once or twice and had no problem with her until I attended a 21st with my boyfriend. I was standing right next to my boyfriend and she just started wrapping her arms around...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Red flag, is this a reason for concern?

I've been with my boyfriend for ten months. I have a fairly good relationship with his parents. It's his moms birthday today and they are holding a barbecue with the family and family friends. However, I was excluded....

Megannomiddlename

Xper 5 Age: 26

Does he like me or am I pushing it?

I met this guy at college and we’ve gotten super close over the past several weeks. I didn’t find him attractive at first, but I do now that I’ve really gotten to know him. He’s sweet, caring, and a great listener. ... I...

maucikay

Xper 3 Age: 24

Is it possible to make an handsome Facebook guy really like me and want to date me?

I have been talking for the past few days with a really handsome guy. I find him really attractive and it's reciprocal... But the thing is that I'm looking for a relationship... He lives far away from me but wants to meet...

Lyhra4

Xper 6 Age: 33

What are some red flags you saw in a relationship but chose to ignore?

rosey_59

Xper 4 Age: 24

What signs help you see your compatibility with someone in a relationship?

When some people fall for someone, they really do. I wonder if before doing this, people look for signs, or "red flags" to assess how compatible they are with that person?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I stop loving someone who doesn’t love me? How do I let go?

So iam in a relationship with a guy and it’s quite serious. However, I keep getting red flags like O saw a convo of him talking to another girl about sex and i feel a bit heartbroken right now and I try to fall out of...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it a red flag if in the beginning phase u dont have long convos?

Just started talking to a guy in June. We talk for 2 hrs on average at night but never more than that usually cause I have to prepare for work the next day or I fall asleep. He said his last relationship. The girl and...

Anonymous

(30-35)