Girlfriend won't get a job because of anxiety?

Anonymous
So, I have been living with my girlfriend for just about our whole relationship. We met in college and we started living together in the dorms and then moved into an apartment together. She told me once we got our own place she would get a job and help me out with the bills. For a year we lived in our first apartment and she maybe paid rent a handful of times. 3 or four times at most. When we moved into a new place because the old place was too small, she promised me she would help me pay, since I don't make enough to support us both. All she seems to do is sit around the house, smoke weed, and whine about the people next door. She claims she can't get a job because her anxiety is getting in the way, but she isn't doing anything to try and get better. I'm living paycheck to paycheck and since COVID started its made it even harder. When I try to talk to her about it all she does it yell and me and make it seem like its my fault we don't have any money.

I love this girl. We are coming up on our three year anniversary. I will support her through anything, but I just want to make sure I'm not being blind to any red flags. Advice?
Girlfriend won't get a job because of anxiety?
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