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I have this old coworker of mine that just left 2 months ago and we’ve been texting since. We worked together for 4 years.
He now texts me 5 days a week from morning till evening while he’s at work starting with a good morning text. He always says he enjoys my company and likes talking to me and has said he doesn’t want to lose me.
Every now and then he’ll come and visit my work and when he stops to talk to me he seems to pace a little bit and fidget with product that’s nearby and doesn’t seem too talkative but then when he goes to talk to my managers he’s standing completely still.
It’s just that he has a girlfriend, who he’s never told me about and seems to avoid telling me but he lives with her and has promise rings with her but I’m pretty sure he might have feelings for me too. anytime I say something that’s like borderline romantic I guess or revealing feelings sort of he just seems to brush past it to avoid saying how he feels?
Like one time I said how I look like a crackhead when I’m home and he said “haha well I’m sure you don’t look like a crackhead” and then I went on to say I do and then when I put makeup on I transform into average looking and he’s usually quick to respond but took 25 mins after I sent that just to say “well that’s your opinion I guess”

Hello,

I've had an online friendship with someone a few years ago; we meant a lot to each other and we discussed anything. We've had our ups and downs. Her other friend didn't want her to speak to me again and I don't know why; so we haven't spoken to each other for a long time. We only wished each other a happy birthday on our birthdays.
I decided to reach out to her again. To keep her anonymous I'm going to call her Abby.

Dialogue summary over the past 2 months
Me: Hi Abby, we haven't spoken to each other in a while. Are you okay? I hope you're still healthy and doing well.
No answer, she's been busy nor has been active at all
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On her birthday
Me: Happy birthday Abby, I hope you're doing well.
Still no answer
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Me: Can you please respond or come online soon? I'm starting to get worried.
Abby: Hey, thanks for worrying, I'm ok I hope you are too
Me: Thank you for letting me know, I'm okay too.
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A few days later
Me: Do you want to talk soon?
Abby: I'm sorry, not really
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Ever since I've been questioning myself; should I just unfriend her? She has hurt me so much. I tried to talk about the situation to someone else and they say that I've been too nice and too patient. I've given her so many chances and she only comes to me whenever she feels like it even though it's rarely ever. What should I do? Just leave it? Say something? Leaving it and doing nothing makes me feel like I'm making myself available when I shouldn't; I'm hurt.

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