A long time ago I told this girl i like her on video call. It was in the moment because we was vibing. I don’t want to date her and I told her this multiple times. She wants to be friends and I’m cool with that since I don’t want to be in a relationship. The problem is I’m trying to be a friend but she thinks everything I say or do is a ulterior move to fuck her. This is not the case and it is so stressful trying to show her otherwise. In the past she mostly leaned on me for emotional support. I felt she only came to me to pass time and treated me as a guy of convenience. Basically she just wanted attention. I don’t know if this is how girls and guys be friends but it never felt right to me. It felt like she didn’t invest in my life. So I’m thinking are we really friends. I get frustrated and sometimes I get too emotional and we have arguments because I feel she doesn’t reciprocate my efforts. She wants her cake and to eat it to. She wants me to be there and soak up all my attention but she doesn’t want to reciprocate. We no longer talk and She wants nothing to do with me. I was always a pushover and I finally spoke up and called her out on everything she was doing and that was the end of it. We probably won’t ever speak again and the way I handled it was not the right way but I had to get stuff off my chest or I would’ve exploded. It was a lot of bad communciation and most of this could’ve been avoided. She said it was annoying that I would bring these issues up but if I’m your friend we should be able to have a honest conversation
What should I do?
