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Just out of interest.. I think it does change how people handle things especially if it happened at a key time when they were growing up. I sometimes have a hard time getting my boyfriend to see my point of view and my feelings as valid, as he has a tendency to get frustrated when you try and talk about if he upset you for some reason, and he assumes it's just me being oversensitive.. because that's how they thought their mum was in the divorce and I think it affects the way he handles arguments too.

so my bf's old friend came back after very long and they decided to catch up so they talked on the phone. on day 1 when she's back, they were on a call for 10 HOURS and on day 2, 5 hours. i found out on day 2 and was REALLY ANGRY not because he might be firting and up to something or anything but bcos he didn't consider my feelings and went to talk to another girl for 10 hours? when i confronted him he said he's sorry he got carried away because an old friend came back. and he will talk to her less if thats what i want. but im really annoyef with the fact that he doesn't put me first and thinks about my feeling as his girlfriend. so angrily, i initiated a break up. should i have accepted his apology and forgive him or did i make the right choice?