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Let's say you met a good looking guy or girl but at home they're parents would call them fat, ugly and disgusting, and they were singled out and abused by their parents most of their childhood. And too add they'd openly abuse them in public. this person is the black sheep of the family and is very different from her parents and siblings. So that was sort of the reason she was singled out and abused by them. Her parents are aslo religious but she's not. They call her a disgusting slut for having unprotected sex when she was 16 with a boy she was dating. ( she only had sex once)
In short let's say your girlfriend is like Meg griffin from family guy but better looking. If your girlfriend looked like this woman but had abusive parents/ siblings would you still date them?

Hello all! I'm working on a little side project of mine. I'm curious to see what men prefer in regards to women. Girls are free to answer as well, of course, but this will focus primarily on the guys.

Men, read the following two scenarios, and decide which girl you would prefer as a quick fling/short-term dating relationship, and which girl you'd prefer as a long-term/marriage relationship.

Girl A: She's thin, but not incredibly skinny. Modest breasts, attractive exterior, few outer flaws. However, she is very self-conscious about her appearance. She will rarely accept compliments you give her, and even she almost never believes you if you say positive things about the way she looks. She is always genuinely down about her looks, not for attention but simply because she does not believe herself to be beautiful. This impacts her daily routine (i. e. she won't wear certain clothes because she immediately hates how they look, won't go out if she doesn't look good/thinks she looks fat, etc.)
Imagin something like this:


Girl B: She's thicker. She's healthy, but not perfect body-i. e. a bit of a tummy, not carved without perfections, stretch marks or cellulite in some places. This girl is confident in herself, and does not care what other people think. She accepts herself and her body, and lives her life as she chooses. She is healthy but has weaknesses to sweets every so often like most. She won't let what people say about her get her down. Imagine something like this:


Now, personality wise both are kind, affectionate and understanding towards their partner and towards others. Only difference is how they see themselves, and how this affects their lives. Both women are good people.

Now, which woman would you rather have a certain relationship with, and why?

This is something I may try for a sociology project, so consider this a test run ;)
Thanks in advance!

Edit: This is just a survey, no attack on any shapes, please be respectful in comments.

Many people when in their 20's tend to hold on very strongly without compromise to what they find physically attractive and tend to not pay much interest in other traits (such as loyalty, honesty, sanity, abusive behavior, controlling behavior etc).

So you may find a girl who would not compromise and only want to date guys over 6'0 or who were taller than them and basically did not want to give short guys a chance until she finds herself single in her late 20's and 30's because she puts too much fluff on the superficial and less on substance that would make a relationship healthy.

[In the movie, I can't hardly wait. Preston (guy above) obsessed over Jennifer Love Hewitt (Amanda) and only realize he was chasing a dream when he found out he really didn't know anything about her, and they had no chemistry. And the girl who was his friend that he ignored for nearly the entire film was the girl who was right for him in the end and lead to a stable relationship.]

Similar, guys who only wanted to chase after the hot girl because they thought doing that would help improve their self esteem and they continuous get rejected, cheated on, or dumped because they did not look for other traits other than the superficial.

Even in cases where men and women have preferences and find X race least attractive. Many people are willing to come around in their 30's and give someone of that race a chance at dating/relationship.

But with everything in life, as we move on through we accumulate emotional, mental baggage and become jaded about relationship. Many of these people who are giving more people a chance to date them and commit to them but they are damaged in some way or the other.

Poll Question: Do you think people who find themselves in their late 20's and 30's because they held onto superficial traits in partner and were picky deserve to get into a relationship with someone who they would not have given a chance for most of their 20's?