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- another guy who sheds been friends with for 3 years has always liked her. She was choosing to spend more time talking to me in group bar outings so he got jealous.
- she was flirting with me.
- when I flirted with her, she kept doing shy smiles.
- I asked if she wanted to meet for drinks by text. And she just replied that the other guy mentioned going to another bar at the end of the month before it closes. I then panicked & texted back it would be good as a group, calling her a sister etc.
- she was avoiding being alone with me next time I saw her in a group. Was very awkward on train home together but was very happy when I gave her birthday card. She didn’t open it but I called her a sister inside.
- next day in group, I avoided her but she kept looking at me. We briefly spoke at end & she was happy although she clinched when I made eye contact with her.
- then again avoided her next time. This time she was avoiding being alone with me again. We were alone on train home but she was pretending everything was ok smiling etc but I could see the discomfort in her eyes and she was leaning away from me. She said also on this journey that she doesn’t like routine & the sort of life married people have.
- She then invited me and the other guy to this other bar. I then lied & told her I only see her as a friend. After that things were mostly normal. Although sometimes we still blank each other. I also implied to her that her best friend told me she likes me & she got angry at her & said she didn’t know why she’d say that as she knows she’s not interested in dating & was nothing to do with her.
- since then however, she texts me non stop all day & night. She also started flirting more with the other guy too whereas before she was flirting with just me & ignoring the other guys advances.
- she goes to things I go to even if she’s not interested. We’ve been to things alone since & she loves it. Sometimes blushing when she sees me.

- known her 2 years as an acquaintance but started getting to know her more recently.
— I called her a sister & asked her if she wants to meet for a drink.
- she dodged the question then started acting weird & distant then days later she invites me & another guy who likes her & has been friends with her for 3 years to a bar. I then lied & said I only see her as a friend. Up to this point she wasn’t responding to the guy being flirty with her. Afterwards, she was very flirty back to him. But also started flirting with me & texting everyday.
- I implied to her that a best friend told me she likes me & she got mad at her saying she knows that she’s not interested in dating.
- she now wants to go to things I go to which she’s not even interested in & even wants to go on holiday.
- The other guy feels threatened.
- they’re going on holiday together.
- I’ve seen her oppose his advances too saying things like “we don’t have to eat together” when he talks about where they should eat before the 3 of us meet.
- She doesn’t talk about our meets alone, she’s very happy when we meet and blushes.
- With mutual friends, she’s nervous around me.

So my girlfriend and I just broke up earlier this week. I admit I had a drinking problem that caused some rifts in our relationship. I've always had a problem with having one too many drinks, and I become someone different when I drink. She also has an older sister who went to rehab for alcoholism, so it's a personal issue with her that hits close to home. She found out I drank a beer at the Superbowl when I promised I wouldn't. It turned into a whole argument of us blaming the other for all our fights. Like she cheated on me before Christmas with her best friend (she did) or how my drinking has depressed her. Anyways, we called it quits, but she came over the other night to talk and it sounded like we wanted it to work. We said I loved you, kissed, and she even stayed the night (no sex just slept together). When we are in person it's like we are dating again, but apart she acts distant. She gets mad if I call her baby. She doesn't message as much. She states she doesn't want a relationship right now, and I really need to prove myself if I want her back. I also discovered she is talking to her best friend again she cheated on me with. I had her block him after the cheating charade, but she added him back the night we broke up. Should I keep trying to win my ex back. Or should I move on?