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We are coworkers and at first use to text all the time. Hhe doesn't show his emotions at all he pretends he's super hard and doesn't need anyone and doesn't like anyone and doesn't need any girl. he has huge issues opening up to people and says he doesn't trust anyone and that when he trust people bad things happen. But u can tell he puts up a front. So recently we hung out and I gave him oral sex, he said I was the best oral sex he's ever received. And then after that he has been distant. Not distant but doesn't text first, he will answer me but just doesn't text first. I'd say he tried to hit and quit but he acts super shy and awkward with me and looks at me in a very lustful way and shy way and you can tell he is thinking I look sexy and likes me. You can TELL he likes me just by the way he acts when we are together. He invited me to hang out on his birthday because I asked. I then brought him a very expensive birthday gift and he looked extremely happy and like he liked me so much ( but quickly hid it) and just said you know your really great. Then I go home try and text him and he's rude again just not answering. It's like the more deep we get into eachother the more he just acts like he doesn't wanna talk. We agreed he'd have to tell me about his life if I got him a present ( I was gonna get him one anyway) he said okay but looked terrified, now he's ignoring me.

who would you choose?

guy 1. 33, corporate job, financially stable, reliable, makes you feel safe and shares feelings, emotions etc. but somewhat boring at times. tells you often with words how much he cares about you. big dick (7.5 inches) and great passionate sex.

guy 2. 24, from overseas, exciting, keen to travel and have new experiences with you, fun. law degree, but unsure of intentions or of future (job and relationship wise) but really enjoys spending time with you and shows affection with actions. above average dick (6.5 inches) and great experimental sex.

you. 26, graduate uni student, part time job with some savings. ready to settle down with a guy but not ready for kids. likes trying new things.

It all starts out with most women preferring players, fuckbois and assholes over the good guys because, well, I dont know why.

But the good men are the ones who are trampled in the process. Because they are turned down because who wants nice guys right?

It would have been a more equal I playground if the good girls wouldn't friend zone the ones that love and respect them for those who dont respect them and see them just as easy sex.

This leads to the good guys suffer from low self esteem and eventually not wanting to take the initiative at all, and you can't blame them for it.
You can hear quotes like,

"I know he is a player, but I want him , i dont know what it is"

These are the same girls that get their heart broken or used for sex and then dumped, and who are the ones that they got to for a shoulder to cry on?
You are right,
THE GOOD GUYS


Then it is followed by statements like,
" I am never going to find a good guy who loves me and doesn't play with my emotions "
The good guy builds up the courage to show his feelings towards her when she recovers from her 'bad boy dumped me' phase and what happens?
Wham!!
" how dare you? Get away from me, I thought you cared about me"



Another blow to the poor guy.
And thus pseudo hurt female goes back to dating fuckbois and after having completely shattered , who does she expect to step in and treat her right?
You guessed it right, the good guy. Who she hurt time and time again, but he stood by her even though it hurt him to bits.


And if he refuses to take her as a partner, then ohhh my lord FEMINISM. The rambling about slut shaming starts and blaming all men for judging women for the past relationships and how all men just want sex.
The worst part
NOTE:
I am not saying that all women are like this, some learn their lesson before its too late, some know what they want and they stay away from fuckbois because they learn from the mistakes of others.

I'd like to hear your views and opinions about it.