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my gf n i dated for 2 months n cared about each other a lot n both felt very strongly for the other n had a great relationship aside from a few disagreements. last week my gf broke up with me because she wasn't getting enough freedom in our relationship and missed her friends and wanted to be able to do whatever she wanted without having to worry about what i thought or feel guilty. she is 18 i am 20 so we are in diferent places and i understood where she was coming from. i sent her an email explaining that i knew wher ei went wrong and assured her that if we tried again that she would get her requests and that i would ease up and not be up her ass so much. she responded well, saying how she still loved me and wanted to be apart of my life and could see herself with me sometime in the future but needed some time to think. she wanted to be with me but wasn't sure she could handle it she said. we hung out two days later and made out a lot and had a great time, like nothing had changed. she said she still needed time though so i decided not to contact her first so that she could do what she needed to do. she texted me two days later asking to do new years, i said yea but had some questions. i wanted to know if we were on the road to getting back together at least, she said she still wasn't sure and urged me to just let it happen. i agreed but then made the mistake of pushing for more answers until she finally said she just wanted to be friends until we both healed. this hurt me very badly and i reacted immaturely because of it. i sent her a very mean text that hit below the belt. she sent me a few texts and then i blocked her on all social media. her friend texted me the next day saying i was an asshole and that she blocked my number but admitted that it was to mask the pain becuase obviously i wasn't pestering her. she texted me last. its been two days since then, i upset her very badly with what i said. will i ever hear from her again or did i take it beyond repair

Hello girls, i was hoping you could help me out. I like this girl. Around a year back i got her number from my office and pinged her. I did not tell her who i was so obviously she was very hostile initially but i kept at it n eventually she started talking. She said we could be friends if it was only friendship i was looking for and nothin else. But i always knew i liked her more than that. But i agreed, if something had to happen it would happen. After that i met her, that was the first time she saw me. I got her some chocolates. Initially she would not ride with me on my bike. But eventually she did. We hung out else i would make a point to visit her just to check on her. We would sit by the pool or in the garden and talk. Gradually she became more comfortable with me. She said she once dated a guy and he said something really bad to her after which she broke up with him. She hasn't moved on since. She said she decided she was never going to date any one. Thats why she would not go to the movies with me because she considered it dating. We went out for dinner and outing though. We had some wonderful time together there was some chemistry. She would always smile and be shy. i had to move to a different country on a work assignment. So i asked her if she wanted to date because i really liked her and wanted to have her in my life. She said the same thing she does not date. I was broken but again i cared for her so i said i will wait. Its been a year since we chat mostly and talk over the phone. Its always great talking to her, its fresh n different. I know she cares for our frindship a lot. She also knows how i feel about her, hell i sent her a 5foot teddy so that she won't get scared at night aftet watching a horror movie. So she knows right. We are closer now. But yet she won't open up completely. She still doesn't want to date any one. She doeznt have any other guy friend asMy question is what is actually stopping her from dating. And should i hang or move on.