Search Results: how can you tell if a guy is just shy

There is this girl that is 27 and I am 25. Also, she is Korean and I am caucasian. We both work in healthcare. For several months she will text me at random times asking how I am doing. These are here initiations of conversation. I recently went to New York and she texted me how I was doing there and how coronavirus was there. Three days ago, I texted her how she was doing and before I could get a follow up four word text out of my phone she responded. I have asked her about her dating life several months ago and she responded that she did not want to date anyone because of her religion. And when I ask to hang out, she has other things to do. I know she is extremely shy and socially awkward, she has told me this. Furthermore, I doubt she has ever dated any guy before, which is fine with me as I have not dated a lot of girls. It just seems like I get a lot of mixed signals from her, considering she initiates the majority of conversations. I would initiate more but because of the mixed signals I get discouraged and I am not going to act desperate. Furthermore, I am not willing to limit myself to a person that may/may not want to date me and if a girl comes along, I will not concern myself with her.