Search Results: how to lose my fear

How to let someone go?

I developed the most horrible habit in the past two years. I’ve been holding onto people who hurt me, leave me, and use me. I have developed this strong fear of abandonment. I’ve lost friends. Family. My boyfriend....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

My boyfriend is getting shredded and I'm insecure that I'm now too ugly for him, what do I do?

I know this sounds pathetic but please help me out here. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a bit more than a year, we love each other, everything is great. He used to be a boxer, but he sadly cannot be in that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What should I do?

So basically I’ve known this girl for a few years and never made a move and for the last few months we haven’t really talked cause we got in an argument and I was butt hurt. Anyways I just found out she got engaged last...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Who Really Has The Upper Hand In A Relationship?

Hello people, it's me again. Today I decided to speak about a pretty important topic especially in teenager interactions. The upper hand in relationships. By deifiniton : Usually in a relationship the one who cares the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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Other

Being Stalked - Things I'd Like Other Angels to Know

Hello everyone, I’m Haely, and unfortunately this isn’t a super happy topic. It is an important one, though. While I’m not totally comfortable going into all of the details of what happened to me, I would like to share...

ReachingNirvana

Xper 6 Age: 30

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The man I love isn’t doing well and there’s nothing I can do for him?

It started when we were together, he threw away his great degree for a bad and bad paying job in his home country, far from where I lived and he had studied. We didn’t decide to be officially in a ldr but it’s pretty...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, would you date a guy who lost his leg in an accident?

I recently read this article https://thoughtcatalog.com/nikita-bee/2014/03/this-is-why-i-left-you/ And frankly, that's one of my biggest fears in life. I can't imagine the hell this poor guy has been living in for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am inept and it kills attraction. What do I do?

I am 29, live at home, still trying to finish undergrad, got fired from my last few jobs, manage to find a casual relationship every now and then, usually with someone who is in a rough spot in their life with self esteem...

bakindabacon

Xper 4 Age: 37

Entertainment & Arts

15 Songs That Moved Me

These are songs that have moved me for different reasons and these are not the only songs that have moved me, it is also a list that I have put together based on what I could pull together and remember. I will say this...

Jjpayne

Editor Age: 42

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Health & Fitness

Why is it hard for me to swallow solid food?

I’m a girl & 20. Since year started I got horrible anxiety attacks daily & at night. I lost weight & was miserable time of my life. Since the year before I did have problem to eat cuz I had anxiety but did eat solid food...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Getting Real in a World of Fake.

I'm gonna start with this excerpt that I found online. "Faking your way through life is believing that if you let people know the real you, they won't like you. The tapes that play in your head say that if people really...

Angelina25

Editor Age: 25

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The Guilt and Struggles of Asociality

I'm gonna start this out by explaining the difference between asociality and introversion. Introverts do need social interaction. They desire friendships and close relationships with others. They enjoy spending time with...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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Society & Politics

How to Help the Homeless, and What NOT to Do

Homeless people. Bad fortune has befallen them. It could happen to any of us. A house fire destroys everything you own, everything you have ever known. Maybe you have a drug problem, and if it gets out of hand you waste...

MsMusic

Editor Age: 26

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What should I do when my mom goes insane when I tell her something again?

On Thursday I have a flight booked to go stay with a girl in a northern European country. My mother went insane over this last year, and I didn't go. I was hoping to be living on my own by now this year, but I am still...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it love or lust?

The question is regarding my relationship. Actually to satisfy my physical and mental needs I start to talk with one girl. Slowly flirting and sexting. After some time we proposed each other. Then we meet , kiss and do...

Insightcall

Xper 4 Age: 35

Been dating a girl for about two months and realized this isn't it for me. But, she in a verys tressful situation right now, what should I do?

These two months we dated went by very fast, and we also moved very fast while dating. It got intimite very soon, which may not have been the smartest of ideas. It all appeared to be going great, but I couldn't shake the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I still think of my old best friend... but I'm in a relationship?

For about a year and a half, me and let's say, Austin, were extremely close friends. We hung out all the time. He wasn't the hottest guy but the first time I seen him I felt extremely attracted and I didn't know why. Kind...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I go in for her first kiss if she is that unsure about everything type of person?

We've been dating 2 months and were still just hugging and cuddling and to be honest I wouldn't want it any other way. Just being with her is enough for me to feel happy. I am her first boyfriend in person prior to her...

chris4569

Xper 4 Age: 26