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I had one friend who I knew for a long time but I since have parted company with him. He basically told me what to do all the time. He told me that I should stop dating the girl I was dating and date someone else, told me that I should be studying different cultures. I have a good friend who's brother is the same - tells me to get a real job, get some hobbies = basically the both of them tell me to conform to their standard. What is it? Why do people do things like that? Why do they go around and tell other people what to do all the time? Judging others constantly? Weirdness