Search Results: my ex still contacts me

Ex-boyfriend said he misses me and that things have been hard. Advice?

Ex and I dated for a year and we broke up almost 6 months ago. When he did, he expressed a lot of doubt and still does to this day. He cried too when we broke up. He was initiating a lot of contact recently, wanting to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I ended a 'friendship' with a girl I've known for 3 years. Do you agree that I did the right thing?

So I've known this girl for best part of nearly 4 years, we've had some great times together, in all honesty I actually really fell in love with her. I never told her, but I made it known when we started getting physical...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is there anything else I can do other than NC to get my ex back?

So my ex broke up with me in November 2020. He cried a lot and so did I. Said it was the right decision, for now, says he may be some big idiot, all the silly stuff they probably just tell you. Stupidly I stayed in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex reached out 2 weeks after we broke up, saying she hopes I’m doing well... should I respond?

We were long distance (she's in college across the state), she broke up with me over Facetime after a rough patch. She reached out the day after to see how I was doing, I didn’t respond. Now 2 weeks later, she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do you do if you are in love with your female best friend?

So I met her over a year ago when we started living together as flat mates, we lived together for six months both studying abroad. Then we went home. Now we're still in contact and quite close. When we lived together I...

SomeGuyWithaQuestion

Xper 5 Age: 29

Why is he ignoring me?

My ex and I broke up just after he moved provinces. We had a big falling out, and after we broke up I thought we weren’t getting back together. About 3 weeks after our breakup, I hooked up with someone he’s *very* close...

LeoPride93

Xper 5 Age: 32

In love with my female best friend

SomeGuyWithaQuestion

Xper 5 Age: 29

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When a guy says he’s not ready for a relationship and is still attached to his ex?

This guy started flirting with me since we met.. he straight out protected me even in our friend group and even changed nicknames for me and him together once in the group. He also called me once late night cause I slept...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is my guy friend suddenly ignoring me?

We've been pretty good friends for about a year. We did meet on tinder after i went through a devastating break up. We flirted for a couple of months before I came clean and told him I wasn't ready to started dating and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I deserve him treating me like this because I used to treat him bad?

when we first met he liked me waaay more than I liked him he was practically almost begging me at some points he would spend money on me and give me a lot of attention and I would ridicule him a ton and act hard to get...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it true that we sometimes can’t take the same hurt/pain we cause and give to someone else?

My ex left me after she became fed up with my abuse both physically and verbally. She left town and also changed her number. I have attempted to contact her through text free numbers but she was blowing me off at first,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does it ever work to take an ex back?

Have a few questions if it has ever worked out for any of you to take your ex back? Bit of background- my ex broke up with me a couple of months ago now, she lied to me about things and never seemed interested in me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Move on or Try again?

I'm 21 my ex was 19 and we dated for a year. I loved her and I thought she loved me too until recently when she got a new job. she was at the job for 2 days started flirting with a new co worker she said she told him she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My ex abused me, used me for sex and cheated by me ignoring him does that show him I don’t give a fuck?

He also got someone else pregnant when our son was 6 months old and he wasn’t even providing for our son and still isn’t. He’s a women beater, deadbeat and cheater. But after this last time of trying to force him to bond...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What do you really think drunk calls and texts mean?

are they genuine feelings or the exact opposite? i ended things with an ex four months ago but there are still times that we've talked post breakup. dont think we've gone through 3 weeks without either one of us...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I found out the guy I’m newly dating hooked up with his ex while away visiting family. Should I cut him loose?

Okay, so I’ve been seeing this guy for almost a month, going on dates approx. once a week. We’ve gone on about five dates and everything is going well... I thought. One of my close girlfriends introduced us, and she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex reached out to me 24 hours after our breakup to see if I'm doing okay... Should I text back?

We were long distance (she's in college across the state), she broke up with me over Facetime after a rough patch. Now 24 hours later she reached out. Should I still remain no contact or answer this 1 text? I fear that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Advice for my past flame?

My and my ex boyfriend have known each other since we were 17, we weren't really together back then, just friends with benefits. we broke that off after those few months we never knew we caught feelings for eachother. We...

unknowngirll101

Xper 3 Age: 28