I also echo the opinion that he’s trying to keep you as a back-pocket girl, unfortunately. It’s probably not anything you did, but you can’t make someone more interested in you than they are. I would probably give him space to come to you- men like this always come back. By back-pocket girl, by the way, I don’t mean that he has someone else he’s more interested in. What I mean is that maybe he really is busy. Maybe he knows he can’t give you the kind of attention and emotional investment that you need for a good relationship right now. Maybe your friendship is very valuable to him, and he worries that if he can’t provide what you need in the dating dynamic, you guys won’t be friends after. All of these are valid reasons for him to not want to get too close to you at the moment, and none of them have to do with anything you’ve done. So what happens now is on you- do you love this person enough to keep the avenue open to him? Does he bring happiness to your life, and will he still bring happiness to you even if you never end up dating? For your own sanity, I would keep looking for other potential connections, but I don’t think there’s anything wrong with giving him space, time, patience, and your support.
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By the sounds of it, he just considers you a good friend and nothing moree. What did you reply to after when he responded "awww" ?
I think he still sees you as a potential partner buy maybe more like a plan b partner. He might have caught feelings for someone else and doesn't want to tell you as he doesn't want to make you angry/sad.
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