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Search Results: paying for a date
Ex reached out, unclear what she wants?
Hey, So this ex with a complicated past reached out to me again for dog sitting, she said I was her last resort before paying a stranger to do it. She shows up a week before to make her dog used to my new apartment...
paulj4
Xper 5 Age: 37 Guys Need To Realize That Girls Don't Want Chivalry or "Nice Guys"
Chivalry Is Offensive Girls don't need you to pay the bill for them - the Modern Woman works and earns her own meals. Girls know this and get offended when guys insist on paying the full bill. Split the bill on dates -...
DracoLuciusMalfoy
Xper 4 Age: 46 Can you change a cheap penny pinching guy?
Hello everyone! I recently met a guy who checks all my boxes except for 1: He is cheap as fuck. This for me is particularly unattractive. I am very good with money and I am frugal and choosey with my spending...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I not worry? What do I do?
My now boyfriend is someone that I’ve know for four years. For two years he chased me and this year we are now dating (since August). We’ve never hung out outside of school and I really want to go on a date with him but...
ClumsyNinja
Xper 4 Age: 24 Would u date a girl?
who has a criminal record? and works a low paying job?
Anonymous
(30-35) Should the man pay for all social events in a long term relationship?
So my girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months now. I've paid for every social event up to this point. I didn't have a huge issue doing so since she was in college and I had a full time job but she just informed me...
B-radley
Xper 5 Age: 30 First date No nos
First dates sound intimidating. After all, it’s a make or break. They can either make your next relationship or break the connection on the get go. Let’s get down and dirty to the no nos of the first meeting (not in...
Why families are the worst to make business with?
A very long story to tell, Buy unfortunately it doesn’t let me write the whole deal here, So just gonna say I let my older sister borrow money, And we don’t get along well. But anyways I still let her borrow $6,600 for a...
Leomar18
Xper 4 Age: 41 Is this new guy being kind of cheap or is it just me?
So I have been dating a guy from my friend circle for two weeks ish. We have gone out 4 times now. First date we went out for drinks I had two beers and offered to pay he refused. Second date he asked me to go to a movie....
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I get over this?
It’s with every girl I feel it’s always someone else out there better than me and I’m never confident enough at all everytime a girl has came to me I was to shy and just ignored her everytime my friends go and talk to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I being shallow for rejecting a guy because of his addiction to weed and being jobless?
I met a guy is overall really sweet and good looking. He's been hitting on me for few months now, and we went out on one date. Initially I was attracted to him, so I wanted to get to know him better. Then after texting...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, how do you feel about girls liking you doing gentlemanly things?
Do you think it’s bad if girls don’t EXPECT but like it/find it sweet when you insist on paying on dates? You do gentlemanly things like opening doors for them, walking them home or making sure they make it home safely....
confussionandguilt
Xper 6 Age: 31 
Why can't I land a second date?
I'm so tired of paying for dates and the girl always seems happy, they last 1.5-2hrs usually and I always get a response back from the girl and we usually text for a couple days after. The problem is once I try and get a...
red324
Guru Age: 37 Why do men behave like SLAVES/SERVANTS in dates, relationships and marriages?
Paying on dates, paying in relationships and paying during marriage combined with paying after divorce, makes the whole idea of dealing with women a bit unattractive. Not to mention, the fact that she can call you an...
Anonymous
(36-45) Did he use me? How do I get rid of him?
A guy initiated talking to me. We went out alone a couple times as his ideas, some the movies, some dinner/lunch, parks and ice cream dates, him paying everytime even when I was planning to get my own stuff. All that. We...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do all guys “court” girls differently? And does the way he “courts” you determine your worth and how he feels about you or views you?
Like a guy can court you by picking you up from work when you work late, going half on the bill or maybe paying the bill for dates while another guy might invite you to his house to get to know you. He may not pick you up...
Sienna__
Xper 4 Age: 26 Why are people so tight with money?
My soster came over to stay with Mum in Australia and didn't help around the house or contribute to paying the bills. No "Thank yous" or anything and when she went back home to UK all she messages me is like "Did you...
Anonymous
(30-35) I love hard but I dont fall easily. How will I ever love a guy if I don't care about new guys?
I think MY first love was stuck on HIS first love. When we met he was perfect. He looked at me like he loved me and that never changed. But once I got to know him I realized how broken hearted he still was and I wanted to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls Should Pay The Bill On The First Date!
Men and Women Are Equal A surprisingly large amount of people still think a guy should pay, especially girls. This is so crazy and hypocritical. Most people think men and women are equal (rightfully so) yet they still...
LonelyGuy87
Xper 5 Age: 25 