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Search Results: slowing things down
Girls, Should I surprise her at work?
The girl I have been talking to has been having a really rough time lately. She is buried beneath work, school, and family obligations that she can't ignore (Grandparents with dementia that refuse to go to an assisted...
Alsus12
Xper 4 Age: 33 Serious Songwriting Without Knowing How to Play an Instrument
Musicians or others may see a title like this and immediately start glaring through this myTake for something to write a... uhh... “strong worded” opinion over. To potential naysayers abroad though, I offer the...
My super sweet shy guy invited me to spend the night?
We are waiting to have sex. At 11, in the middle of kissing I said I needed to go. He said I could just spend the night. I was really surprised. I know he wasn't trying to get laid because he had slowed things down...
Anonymous
(30-35) What are your thought on people who do everything very fast and people who do things with a more slow-calm pace?
I'd like to explore how people "perceive" this style, if its already part of our culture or if it comes down to a personal preference and style. I personally feel "drained" and exhausted when sharing with people who speak...
lifelearner011
Yoda Age: 34 "Don't Let Your Heart be Troubled" - Conquering Depression
Depression That is a fearful term for many of us who have went through that or have at least witnessed its ravaging effects on people around us. I can empathize with those who are currently going through such a stage in...
SirSkylar
Xper 5 Age: 29 My ex boyfriend said he still wanted to be friends and talk, liked my Instagram photo and Facebook status. Why? Could it mean he still cares?
We had dated for about 5 months, he wanted me to move in and I was about to! One day out of nowhere he said he felt things were going to fast, and at first said he didn't want things to end, just to slow down, but then a...
kaitlenallen
Xper 4 Age: 28 Girls, fairly certain she likes me, but she has a boyfriend. What do you think?
Like I said she has a boyfriend but I'm 99.99% she likes me. 1) She always stared at me in class and talked to me whenever she could, she also seemed excited when we were taking the same class next semester but was...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, does he think of me?
The question sounds super clingy, and maybe I am but I don't show it. I met a guy on tinder and we went out, it got hot so we went out again. I was in his city for only a couple of days, so I knew what I wanted for it...
Anonymous
(25-29) She cares for me but is confused, what’s my next step?
Long story short we dated up until about two months ago. We were addicted to each other. We lived 4 hours a part and it was rough, but I'm attending college 20 minutes from her house this fall and moving down there soon....
HBisMyRobin
Xper 5 Age: 29 What’s my next move to progress the relationship?
Long story short we were dating up until about two months ago. We were addicted to each other. We lived 4 hours a part and it was rough, but I'm attending college 20 minutes from her house this fall and moving down there...
HBisMyRobin
Xper 5 Age: 29 Why he talk to me drunk but seems cold when sober?
We were dating for a little while but then things were going too fast for him so we decided to slow it down like pretty much. Practically we meet only when we bump into each other. When he is drunk he texts me, says...
Anonymous
(30-35) Snapshot From Progressive: Saving Money on Car Insurance
For my first Take on this site in a while, I figured I'd start with a non-confrontational and gender-neutral subject, so here's my experience with the Snapshot device from Progressive and how it affects your car insurance...
What does it mean when a guy says he wants to take it slow?
I met him at work, and one day I started talk to him first, few days later every time when we worked together he walked me home after work. And he started to hold my hand and hugs. On his birthday we spent a day together...
Anonymous
(30-35) Hating Our Femininity
Girls are smaller. Girls are slower. Girls are weaker. As a woman, do you feel annoyed by this? Does it bother you that the world has seen and still sees us this way? Maybe we should get buff, work faster and post videos...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls and Insecurities
LADIES! You've got to stop buying into these "beauty standards" that you see in movies, magazines, and billboards. Anything you see in print, or really anywhere, are made that way to sell you things. It's not what men...
fjh80
Xper 6 Age: 45 My (Not So) 13 Reasons Why
DISCLAIMER/TRIGGER WARNING: THIS IS NOT A TAKE PROMOTING SUICIDE. I WATCHED THE SERIES AND A LOT PF THINGS IN IT HIT HOME FOR ME. WHILE I DON’T NECESSARILY AGREE WITH THE ENDING, I CAN SEE HOW SHE GOT THERE. I’M GOING TO...
CHARismatic110
Influencer Age: 38 girlfriend got a happy ending massage is this cheating?
girlfriend went to Thailand to visit and when she got back she told me she got a massage with a happy ending. Its was a male who was giving it to her. My issue is that yes we've only been together a month and slept in the...
54newstar
Xper 4 Age: 34 Why would a stripper tell me her real name and personal stuff about her?
Okay instead of one, it was actually two of them. I thought telling even their real names was supposed to be kept under wraps for security reasons. Anyway, the whole purpose of me going to a strip club was to get myself...
Anonymous
(36-45) When will he like me?
So a few months ago I met this guy while we were rehearsing for a musical. It wasn't love at first sight (not for me at least) anyway, we didn't spoke to each other till 2 months earlier. He asked for my number etc and...
Aisse
Xper 4 Age: 25 How can you tell if a guy is just trying to sleep with you?
Things got a little hot and heavy on our last date and we decided to slow down. Is he just trying to come to my place to try and get in my pants?
Anonymous
(30-35) 