Girls are smaller. Girls are slower. Girls are weaker.
As a woman, do you feel annoyed by this? Does it bother you that the world has seen and still sees us this way? Maybe we should get buff, work faster and post videos of us lifting heavy things. Be it that way, the feeling of female inferiority still persists. But we shouldn't.
I am not ashamed to be smaller. I am not ashamed to be weaker. What I am ashamed of, is being told that my credibility is based on how comparable I am to a man.
Our world has taken a great shift from conservative perception, to a strongly liberal one. Certainly more freedoms and harmonic results have come out, but not without the cost of breaking fundamental strings. Overly subjective ideology has its corrosion on objective truths, which cast us into a hallucination of vague reasoning and living.
We may be convinved we are surfing the waters of open mindness, when really we are contained in a small display tank. Humans are the most valuable merchandise, organized neatly on the beastly retail shelves of society. Our relevance in existance is based soley on how much money we can put into the system.
Extreme trends scream money, and third wave feminism is only that - a lucrative trend. Not to be mistaken for the fight men and women undertook in years past to break "human merchandising," conservative ideas then, but the diluted retail construct pressured onto us, that we may conform.
Modern feminism, plays the catalyst in destroying valid female self identity, to build up a certain form easier to control and manipulate. In this case, it forces the idea that femininity is weaker than masculinity, or irrelevant altogether. A woman ought to be ashamed of being a woman.
1.) This Feminism...Is Misogyny
I am still wondering where the grand counsel was held, making it law that masculinity is the epitome of human existence.
Stigmas like this are a lingering symptom from the post hyper- misogynistic society before, which feminists swear the world will become if women are not as strong, authorative, and independent as men. This is strange, as perpetuating masculine based ideas actually supports misogyny, the idea that masculinity is superior to femininity.
Modern women boast or are made out to be non-authentic knock off's of the male identity. The idealized woman no longer being womanly, but aggressive, sexually driven like men, (or more,) built and authoritative.
She seems fierce and powerful on the outside, but suddenly becomes a competitor with men. Now, instead of being unified to males, males become obstacles rather than partners. More and more relationships appear with women screaming and belittling their partners, spitefully using the system to destroy men's lives, demanding men uphold their gender roles whilst completely destroying female relevance.
Men operate smoothly with femininity, women with masculinity, which is why the lack thereof impacts romance harshly. These women become hardened, obnoxiously opinionated, and lack basic social etiquette, especially regarding men. Their moral is exchanged for transient ideas that being severely headstrong translates to a woman of substance.
Your education, career, and chin held high, can not compensate for the pride driven, sexists dilemma you keep pushing, and hurting many along the way. In truth, its just an inferiority complex women have developed from being beaten with the idea that femininity is despicable.
Men are not our competition in the least, and harboring a sexist prideful view that we need to eliminate our feminine spirit to be better than them - by being them, just further pushes misogynistic brainwashing.
2.) The Feminine Touch
This misogyny happens largely due to the fact that we attach positive traits only to men.
Yes, men are stronger physically. Yes men are more "dominant," in nature, and yes men are to always be resourcefully independent. However, strength, authority, and independence manifest in numerous ways. Men take time to develop their masculinity, as do women in our femininity.
A very feminine woman is an extremely powerful woman. An example of this, is the woman you see everyday...your mother. Do not be offended in giving in to the subliminal feminist idea that mothers are weak.
Mothers die fighting, protecting, risk lives running through fire, work several jobs, barely sleep, endure various traumas, provide for their families, and love very self sacrificially. When mother's day rolls around, even the strongest men feel tears. Husbands entreat their wives, children make cute poorly drawn expressions of love and thanks to her.
Ugh, but she may have been just a whatever housewife, or gave up her schooling, or her husband makes more money than her. Sure, but her nurturing hand builds up merit for everyone involved.
Our feminine spirit is so powerful, that its the only other existing in balance alongside men's. It is equal, and manifest strength, independence and authority in its way.
A good observation is how guys feel intimidated by more masculine men. Similarily, women feel intimidated by other women, based on her femininity. She confidently embraces her beauty, is soothing in her gentle nature, firm in her authority and has a certain feminine sparkle other women enjoy and men adore.
Why feminists are determined to convince the world that femininity is bad, just shows a steep misunderstanding of their own feminine spirit. Maybe they feel ashamed from all the woman bashing society makes us do to each other. Throwing it in our face that we are less inventive historically, weaker, etc to men.
An anti-girly girl may talk louder and rock baggy clothes - but she can not compare to a woman who isn't defined by social constructs:
A man is not going to tell me who I am.
Neither is a woman.
3.) Feminism = Feminine
Is that not the idea?
Instead of killing girl ideology, feminism should be encouraging women to embrace our feminine side without feeling belittled or shamed. Imagine if sisterhoods formed that emphasized the female natures desire to heal and care; how powerful we would be, coming together not about a pay gap, but a real force in ending world hunger? How about using our voices and means for women still abused and uneducated in extreme sexist societies? Encouraging good manners, gentleness and respect in our households instead of demanding respect only for ourselves as women? Why are we forced to come together to tear down ourselves and others, instead of feeling secure in our femininity to build the world up?
I expect a sexist male to insult my gender for not inventing indoor plumbing, but not a woman to lay out a list or imply through her actions, that men are superior and how I need to reject my female nature to be "better."
Its all a delusion over liberated radicals have made for their lack of seeing the fish tank we are in together. There is an ocean out the window nearby, and its swimmable if one can brave the baggie fall - Finding Nemo style.
4.) Have No Shame
Men have their flashy "dominance," some women seem to penis envy, but love and even uphold femininity. They like our softer skin, smaller builds, sweet touches and all the grand detailed things we have done - be it maintaining the kingdom or going hungry to send them food on the battlefield. Every man heard his mother's heartbeat before anything else. They were nursed and felt protected in her strong embrace. As men feel it is important to watch over all, there is a feeling in us to console and care for all.
And I am not ashamed of that.